'Are you nervous?' how do you respond if she says it after you lose erection during BJ?

[sinksink]

I wasn't feeling nervous. well I guess not more nervous than w/ girls in usual. But mainly real reason is hard to stay hard w/o the iron grip of my fist and BJ seemed great but much looser / colder and even during jerking myself off I still lose it a few times in between hard fapping

What should you say back? 'no let's have a snack break' could sound disrespectful no? But it is basically the info I am trying to convey that I would need a break to regain erection

 

[Vision]

Why don't you either teach her how you'd like her to do it or just help her while she's doing it?

 

[Will_V]

I wasn't feeling nervous. well I guess not more nervous than w/ girls in usual. But mainly real reason is hard to stay hard w/o the iron grip of my fist and BJ seemed great but much looser / colder and even during jerking myself off I still lose it a few times in between hard fapping

What should you say back? 'no let's have a snack break' could sound disrespectful no? But it is basically the info I am trying to convey that I would need a break to regain erection

Stop/reduce fapping then, you're just training your dick to enjoy the iron grip rather than a woman's soft lips.

 

[sinksink]

Why don't you either teach her how you'd like her to do it or just help her while she's doing it?

Ah. Because I don't know what is wrong if anything. Mouth is on dick, its moving, I don't know what to tell her.

And even one time when I got a BJ which I think should have felt great (she put it in deep, played w/ balls, it looked great visually) I still lost erection mid way and didn't know what to say

So I'm just trying to figure out what to say in this situation

 

[sinksink]

Stop/reduce fapping then, you're just training your dick to enjoy the iron grip rather than a woman's soft lips.

So I've tried like 1 week no fap, still lost erection when in a mouth. So in case it happens again, what would you say in that moment?
Not asking about the erection problem, just asking what to say/do once its too late

 

[Vision]

Maybe you're not really into BJs?

Have you enjoyed them from others before is it particular with this girl?

 

[0---]

So I've tried like 1 week no fap, still lost erection when in a mouth. So in case it happens again, what would you say in that moment?
Not asking about the erection problem, just asking what to say/do once its too late

Go for longer than that.


But mostly this is in your head. You need to learn to enjoy the sensations and get/stay turned on by the visuals.

 

[DonGately]

1) sleep more
2) stop doing drugs
3) less drinking and no smoking
4) workout more both lifting and cardio
5) no fap
6) find a girl you actually care about being with

If after all that you still have a problem, take ED or see your doctor.