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I decided to catch up with a friend and go for some day game. We met up at metro station and decided to walk up to central area. We kept talking the whole way and neither of us approached. My friend ran into his girl and wished me goodbye. I was feeling lazy so decided to head back home and went to catch the Metro back. I saw this Asian girl standing at place des arts metro alone waiting (she's free and has lot of time).
I was initially hesitant but decided to go and open anyway. There was a shock in her eyes and took a step back and still kept the conversation. She right away asked me if I talk to girls in metro. I replied only if they're cute.
She-you are cute too
Me- thanks
She- I'm sure you get this from a lot of girls
Me-haha it's kind of nice to hear from a sweet girl tho.
We then decided to exchange numbers and grab bubble tea. This was a green signal girl so I setup a date quickly over text.
Date
Bubble tea
We decided to meet outside at metro. I greeted her with a hug. Then we walked together to get some bubble tea. We chat a little about ourselves and I tease her a little. I tell her that we are going a boba shop with ube yogurt and how the place is ever Filipina's dream. I tease her on how she won't be able to resist the Ube yogurt. We enter the tea shop and I order the most popular brown sugar tea and she mirrors my order (green signal). The shop was not a great spot but we walked a little. I talked about my travels on a map they had slowly adding some kino which was will received. We discuss travel interests and I build similarity. Then I talked about my journey as an immigrant from Asia and she talks about her intent to move to Canada (building rapport). We talk a little about job but there no similarity so I move on and talk about my family and talk about hers. After a little more than an hour I bounce to billards fat pub. We talk about Netflix, movies and Bollywood. She enjoys it as she's a film student. I try to hold hand but she rejects. I'm not that high on the ladder of attraction so I scale back.
Pub
We decided to grab a beer and play some pool. I get myself a beer and she tells me to pick hers. I get a stout and get a cider and we wage a bet that loser pays. We got our table quick and I start the game. I start seeding that e should go and watch a movie and she agrees. I keep touching and teasing about her game as we play. She teases me back on how serious I was playing the game and I don't that ofc I'm an engineer and naturally serious guy. Then after the first game is won by her I give her a hug and tell her we should watch a move at my place. She's pushed back saying let's play another game (I'm not ready). I'm cool with it and let her start the game. I still keep playing, touching her, talking and teasing. She's also me if I approach girls in subway ask the time. I ignore and laugh it off. I see that she gives me 'Doe eyes' , a very strong sign of attraction. I get a little more bold with my touch. I move from touching hand and shoulder to hips. I win the game and we hug. We finish our drink and walk out. I take get in the direction of my house. She walks with me and halfway down she asks where are we going and I say my place to watch a movie. She's a bit hesitant and I take her hand and start talking about the movie we should watch. We head to my place.
House
We are back at my place. I take off her coat(compliance) and hang it in my closet and ask her to wear indoor slippers by invoking Asian jokes. Then I give her a tour of my house so that she gets comfortable in the environment. We sit next to each other on the couch and I pick a movie initially but I see she's not that into it and then I let her pick as I give her some background. She asked me how long have I been doing this. I feigned ignorance and she pushed asked again how often do I approach girls and bring them home. She recognized I was a player and there's was a bit of resistance from her side. I replied that in North America it's common to approach woman in public unlike in Asia. I approach women in public as I have been here long and become 'white'. I move the discussion to what she wants to watch. We settle on a crime biographical movie and I talk and the actress and the movie. I see the doe eyes again and go in for the kiss and pull back. Then we are watching the movie and she loves the movie for its colorful sets. I go back for another kiss this time longer and again pull back (fractioning) . Then I explain get the story line which she didn't follow and go back to kissing but now she's ready so I carry her to my bedroom while the movie was still rolling to make a movie of our own.
Things I did right
1) I recognized the strong signs of Attraction and lead the interactions boldly.
2) Seed at the right time and persist.
3) texting minimum and keeping it light
I was initially hesitant but decided to go and open anyway. There was a shock in her eyes and took a step back and still kept the conversation. She right away asked me if I talk to girls in metro. I replied only if they're cute.
She-you are cute too
Me- thanks
She- I'm sure you get this from a lot of girls
Me-haha it's kind of nice to hear from a sweet girl tho.
We then decided to exchange numbers and grab bubble tea. This was a green signal girl so I setup a date quickly over text.
Date
Bubble tea
We decided to meet outside at metro. I greeted her with a hug. Then we walked together to get some bubble tea. We chat a little about ourselves and I tease her a little. I tell her that we are going a boba shop with ube yogurt and how the place is ever Filipina's dream. I tease her on how she won't be able to resist the Ube yogurt. We enter the tea shop and I order the most popular brown sugar tea and she mirrors my order (green signal). The shop was not a great spot but we walked a little. I talked about my travels on a map they had slowly adding some kino which was will received. We discuss travel interests and I build similarity. Then I talked about my journey as an immigrant from Asia and she talks about her intent to move to Canada (building rapport). We talk a little about job but there no similarity so I move on and talk about my family and talk about hers. After a little more than an hour I bounce to billards fat pub. We talk about Netflix, movies and Bollywood. She enjoys it as she's a film student. I try to hold hand but she rejects. I'm not that high on the ladder of attraction so I scale back.
Pub
We decided to grab a beer and play some pool. I get myself a beer and she tells me to pick hers. I get a stout and get a cider and we wage a bet that loser pays. We got our table quick and I start the game. I start seeding that e should go and watch a movie and she agrees. I keep touching and teasing about her game as we play. She teases me back on how serious I was playing the game and I don't that ofc I'm an engineer and naturally serious guy. Then after the first game is won by her I give her a hug and tell her we should watch a move at my place. She's pushed back saying let's play another game (I'm not ready). I'm cool with it and let her start the game. I still keep playing, touching her, talking and teasing. She's also me if I approach girls in subway ask the time. I ignore and laugh it off. I see that she gives me 'Doe eyes' , a very strong sign of attraction. I get a little more bold with my touch. I move from touching hand and shoulder to hips. I win the game and we hug. We finish our drink and walk out. I take get in the direction of my house. She walks with me and halfway down she asks where are we going and I say my place to watch a movie. She's a bit hesitant and I take her hand and start talking about the movie we should watch. We head to my place.
House
We are back at my place. I take off her coat(compliance) and hang it in my closet and ask her to wear indoor slippers by invoking Asian jokes. Then I give her a tour of my house so that she gets comfortable in the environment. We sit next to each other on the couch and I pick a movie initially but I see she's not that into it and then I let her pick as I give her some background. She asked me how long have I been doing this. I feigned ignorance and she pushed asked again how often do I approach girls and bring them home. She recognized I was a player and there's was a bit of resistance from her side. I replied that in North America it's common to approach woman in public unlike in Asia. I approach women in public as I have been here long and become 'white'. I move the discussion to what she wants to watch. We settle on a crime biographical movie and I talk and the actress and the movie. I see the doe eyes again and go in for the kiss and pull back. Then we are watching the movie and she loves the movie for its colorful sets. I go back for another kiss this time longer and again pull back (fractioning) . Then I explain get the story line which she didn't follow and go back to kissing but now she's ready so I carry her to my bedroom while the movie was still rolling to make a movie of our own.
Things I did right
1) I recognized the strong signs of Attraction and lead the interactions boldly.
2) Seed at the right time and persist.
3) texting minimum and keeping it light
