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asking girls out when you're already busy

Lushie

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Is it reasonable to ask a girl out even if you know the following week you'll be busy and won't be able to plan a date til another week.
I've read somewhere that it's usually not good to plan a date more than a week in advance, but I also don't want to lose that attraction window by waiting any longer.
I was thinking of just soft closing and then checking back with her when I'm free, see if she's still down and then hard close. Thoughts?
 
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Tribal Elder
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Is it reasonable to ask a girl out even if you know the following week you'll be busy and won't be able to plan a date til another week.
I've read somewhere that it's usually not good to plan a date more than a week in advance, but I also don't want to lose that attraction window by waiting any longer.
I was thinking of just soft closing and then checking back with her when I'm free, see if she's still down and then hard close. Thoughts?
correct too in advance odds go down, unless you keep bantering till the meet, don't soft close just keep pinging, flirting, bantering then when you are free soft close to gauge temperature if is positive, then hard close...
 
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