How do you guys attract girls non-verbally? After all, if you can't win a girl just with words, you've gotta do it with things like...
1. Your body posture: standing/sitting straight, chest slightly puffed out, chin parallel to floor. Also must look relaxed and cool. I was told once that when I rolled my shoulders back and had my chest way out, I was looking like a try hard. So now I just flex my lower back and as a result, I grow like an inch and it also puffs out my chest a bit. I don't roll my shoulders back anymore, I just try to keep them like up. I must try to maintain good posture while in conversation, sometimes I get too engrossed into the converation, and I feel I forget to maintain my posture cause I don't consciously think about it.
2. Your walk: exaggerated movements, extremely slow movements, extremely slow arm swaying, extremely slow slight shoulder rocking, walk extremely slowly, be fluid and not too exaggerated movements, (don't seem like your working really hard, I sometimes get this feeling a lot, what do you guys think) thighs spaced far apart (do you guys do this consciously? lol whenever I do this, I think I look like a gangster).
3. Facial expressions like the thoughtful look, skeptical look, bored look - still have to read Chase's article: "7 facial expressions that drive women wild".
4. Your smile - slow, spreading smile
5. Nose wrinkle during direct and indirect direct opener
6. Talking slow (important to note this, even though it's verbal)
7. Showing bored look and not talking to girl when you can tell she isn't putting much effort into the interaction (eg. she doesn't answer your deep dive question well)
8. Eye contact - make her look at you first if possible, 90% eyes on her when she's talking, a bit less when you're talking
9. Triangle gaze
10. Looking into her eyes, while you imagine fucking her
11. Good looks
- sexy haircut (don't really have a good idea yet, although I did go to the hair salon once, not sure I liked the hairstyle they gave me though)
- sexy facial hair (can grow a moustache, a bit of sideburns, and some chin hair - don't know what to do though, maybe just a moustache for now)
- jacked body (working out 3 times a week but am really skinny still - 127 pounds)
- good sense of fashion (got)
Feel free to add more to this list, and don't hesitate to discuss about anything related to non verbal attraction. Constructive criticism is welcome!
1. Your body posture: standing/sitting straight, chest slightly puffed out, chin parallel to floor. Also must look relaxed and cool. I was told once that when I rolled my shoulders back and had my chest way out, I was looking like a try hard. So now I just flex my lower back and as a result, I grow like an inch and it also puffs out my chest a bit. I don't roll my shoulders back anymore, I just try to keep them like up. I must try to maintain good posture while in conversation, sometimes I get too engrossed into the converation, and I feel I forget to maintain my posture cause I don't consciously think about it.
2. Your walk: exaggerated movements, extremely slow movements, extremely slow arm swaying, extremely slow slight shoulder rocking, walk extremely slowly, be fluid and not too exaggerated movements, (don't seem like your working really hard, I sometimes get this feeling a lot, what do you guys think) thighs spaced far apart (do you guys do this consciously? lol whenever I do this, I think I look like a gangster).
3. Facial expressions like the thoughtful look, skeptical look, bored look - still have to read Chase's article: "7 facial expressions that drive women wild".
4. Your smile - slow, spreading smile
5. Nose wrinkle during direct and indirect direct opener
6. Talking slow (important to note this, even though it's verbal)
7. Showing bored look and not talking to girl when you can tell she isn't putting much effort into the interaction (eg. she doesn't answer your deep dive question well)
8. Eye contact - make her look at you first if possible, 90% eyes on her when she's talking, a bit less when you're talking
9. Triangle gaze
10. Looking into her eyes, while you imagine fucking her
11. Good looks
- sexy haircut (don't really have a good idea yet, although I did go to the hair salon once, not sure I liked the hairstyle they gave me though)
- sexy facial hair (can grow a moustache, a bit of sideburns, and some chin hair - don't know what to do though, maybe just a moustache for now)
- jacked body (working out 3 times a week but am really skinny still - 127 pounds)
- good sense of fashion (got)
Feel free to add more to this list, and don't hesitate to discuss about anything related to non verbal attraction. Constructive criticism is welcome!
