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Yesterday I approached to one milf while she was sitting in park bench. Slow opened her, hooked her with statements about park, visitors and asking personal questions about what she thinks about this or that. We talked about various topics, food, religion, hobbies, etc. Then I pulled her to walk with me in park, to show her how to determine different tree species, because she really liked that topic and seemed excited talking and listening about that (used this to get compliance and to build stronger connection and some arousal).
Then, we were walking and talking, and I ”accidentally” touched her and used strong eye contact and sexy and warm smiles. I must admit that during touching I made a little mistake about this because I touched her at the same places – shoulder and back. My vibe was happy, and even I was a little bit horny.
I also asked for some small compliance i.e. to hold me this or that. Because it was late we had to go home (we discovered we are neighbors). Route to our homes leads through forest. When we entered the forest we talked more and when I tried to ”accidentally” touch her one more time she put her shirt to cover her back and shoulders. I suspect she did this probably because was uncomfortable with my touching but maybe (less likely in my opinion) she was uncomfortable in forest. She seemed excited and neutral in the same time and once named me BRO in conversation (slotted into friend zone danger).
Then I transited to sex talk. She wasn’t too much excited to talk about that so I told her one or two arousal stories. Because she was in hurry and I didn't sense enough interest from her side, I decided to not to try extracting her to my home. I asked her to we meet again in the same park for walking and exercise. She agreed. Because I forgot my phone at home and was too tired to remember her phone number, I gave her mine and to leave me her through text or call. Then once again I ”protectively” touched her through her shirt. Also I told her that I live alone so she could consider me as sexual option. Before we departed our ways, I reminded her to send me her number and we hugged (I like to use hugs because it is opportunity to touch girls more and use proximity). At this point she removed shirt so I could gently touch her back. When I came home and took phone saw that she didn’t leave me her number and I don’t think she ever will.
Moral of story:
I have read Chase’s article about sexy man. Most of these things mentioned there I have except accent that is considered as ”bad” because is different than people who live here. Even this MILF told me that it differs much.
Fact 1 is that I have: pretty face, good posture, muscles, good clothes, money, education, and other stuff and a lot of girls including this MILF are not much fascinated by me.
Fact 2 is that I use some arousal tech (nonverbals, arousal story, etc.) but a lot of times it is not enough. I know for some advanced tech to build arousal but I am beginner to intermediate player and it is too much for me.
Hope this report will help some guys in daygame in parks and someone more experienced will help me to understand things why I fail.
My questions are:
Then, we were walking and talking, and I ”accidentally” touched her and used strong eye contact and sexy and warm smiles. I must admit that during touching I made a little mistake about this because I touched her at the same places – shoulder and back. My vibe was happy, and even I was a little bit horny.
I also asked for some small compliance i.e. to hold me this or that. Because it was late we had to go home (we discovered we are neighbors). Route to our homes leads through forest. When we entered the forest we talked more and when I tried to ”accidentally” touch her one more time she put her shirt to cover her back and shoulders. I suspect she did this probably because was uncomfortable with my touching but maybe (less likely in my opinion) she was uncomfortable in forest. She seemed excited and neutral in the same time and once named me BRO in conversation (slotted into friend zone danger).
Then I transited to sex talk. She wasn’t too much excited to talk about that so I told her one or two arousal stories. Because she was in hurry and I didn't sense enough interest from her side, I decided to not to try extracting her to my home. I asked her to we meet again in the same park for walking and exercise. She agreed. Because I forgot my phone at home and was too tired to remember her phone number, I gave her mine and to leave me her through text or call. Then once again I ”protectively” touched her through her shirt. Also I told her that I live alone so she could consider me as sexual option. Before we departed our ways, I reminded her to send me her number and we hugged (I like to use hugs because it is opportunity to touch girls more and use proximity). At this point she removed shirt so I could gently touch her back. When I came home and took phone saw that she didn’t leave me her number and I don’t think she ever will.
Moral of story:
- I doesn’t matter how good connection you have with girl (MILF in this case) and how much compliance you get if you are not considered as sexy man and don’t provide enough arousal you will not be considered as romantic or sexual option. I used some arousal build tech but looks like it wasn’t enough. Looks like that she wasn’t fascinated by me and not much excited either (Chase’s article about attraction is there or isn’t).
- If she is sexually unavailable from any reason, good connection, compliance and some mediocre level of arousal will not save you.
I have read Chase’s article about sexy man. Most of these things mentioned there I have except accent that is considered as ”bad” because is different than people who live here. Even this MILF told me that it differs much.
Fact 1 is that I have: pretty face, good posture, muscles, good clothes, money, education, and other stuff and a lot of girls including this MILF are not much fascinated by me.
Fact 2 is that I use some arousal tech (nonverbals, arousal story, etc.) but a lot of times it is not enough. I know for some advanced tech to build arousal but I am beginner to intermediate player and it is too much for me.
Hope this report will help some guys in daygame in parks and someone more experienced will help me to understand things why I fail.
My questions are:
- What man can do to maximally improve his sexiness or other stuff that will make more women more fascinated with him? This is my big problem with women. Simply qualities and vulnerabilities I have aren’t much valued by many women. I have approached a lot of women but rarely found some that is really into me. I would say that many women aren’t fascinated, just aren’t fascinated enough. Maybe they will talk with me, want to know me more but that is where story ends. I saw that fascination is mostly based on fundamentals and attainability (if girl likes your qualities and think can reach them she will be fascinated).
- What man can do to give girl enough arousal so she will be more excited by him? I use nonverbal tech and vibe. But my vibe is different in dependence how my day was good or bad and nonverbal tech alone sometimes works more or less well. I think that I mostly fail in this part of attraction. After all if some girl (MILF) wants to hook up or even non serious relationship with someone, first she will look how excited she is with this guy. Should I use more tech or just to improve what already use?
- Am I just oversensitive, and everything is fine with me and my game and just should continue to approach girls until find some girls that will be fascinated enough and excited enough? I have over 400 approaches under my belt.
