Average to Savage

[Savage]

I'm proud to announce to the greater Seattle area that I've just started approaching girls. That's right, I've checked myself into the game, ready to help the dirty girls of this fair city meet a ferociously handsome man like Savage.

Mentality Goal for April:
- View approaching as something to do. It's not hard, it's not draining, it's just something you do, like breathing or walking.

Concrete Goal for April
- Situational/indirect approach 10 girls total

No worrying "Is this worth my time?" or "Boo hoo, I can't go out every weekend like this just for some tail" or "Being obsessed with pickup and just going out for the sole intention of getting girls is lame. They'll see right through it." You know what, FUCK THAT!! You do what you want, when you want.

And field reports for every outing.

If I beat the Concrete Goal marked, I'll slot the next goal from the list.

Be a savage that can't be stopped. See ya.

 

[Savage]

Day 1 - Mall

Not going to post this as a field report because nothing interesting happened. Keeping this for my notes.

Went to the mall to make a return, and the sexy counter girl (Asian persuasion) immediately started hitting on me, asking where I go to school and what do I like to do for fun. Didn't ask for her number.

Went to Bath and Body Works to see if they added my original cologne back to the lineup yet (the original "Woods" scent always got the floozies sniffing me.) No such luck, but I spied a sexy blonde bombshell eyeing me. I didn't approach, that's my one weak point for now. Just wait, that'll all change here soon.

Can't believe I ever thought these hotter, higher caliber girls weren't into me! What a fucking joke! I'm glad I give myself more credit for the savage that I am, working on my body and lookin to give these girls a great time. I keep making myself better, there's no one who will be too good for me.

See ya big hitters.

 

[TouchGrass]

Hey, Savage!

Clever titling on your journal; definitely gives it that witty, eye-catching impression. I applaud you for taking it upon yourself to get out there and start approaching. I'm a beginner like you, and it definitely hasn't been easy for me either, but I have the feeling your fundamentals are much more solid than mine were judging by the looks these girls are giving you!

I can't say I'm at the point where I can give rock solid advice to you, but to me, my biggest sticking point right now was overthinking way too much about how I would approach "that girl." It took me awhile to realize that as a beginner you've gotta stop thinking about it and let your feet take you right next to her, smooth or not. Hope you won't have to take as long to figure that out as I did

Good luck in your endeavors,
Alex

 

[Savage]

FR+: Asian Was the Persuasion

Hey big hitters,

I've arrived with my first field report, where attraction just happened at a pretty savage pace.
Today was a lovely date with, let's call her Victoria, because I found her secret.

Met this beautiful Asian girl on Tinder from LA, where I'm only on a short vacation to. She swiped right, so obviously she's into returning the favor Getting her out wasn't easy though. We talked for a few days, can't post the conversation since I deleted Tinder after not getting enough matches I wanted. Just need more muscle in my pics, those babes will be begging for a night together.

Anyways, she asked me out first, she wanted to hang at the beach, but I couldn't get her to schedule an exact day after 2 days of texting, so I just deleted her number and moved on. Then she started texting me again asking when I was free, finally scheduled something for today.
So we go out to a college campus, she's already rubbing her hand to mine like she wants to hold hands. I definitely should have been more aggressive, this girl is very good at playing the innocent role and hiding her slutty side. More on that later.

Anyway, she gives me a tour of the campus, wearing sexy shorts that were dying to keep her ass in them. Fucking put guys heads on a swivel. This girl is so thin, all her weight is in that globe ass. We sat down since I wanted some shade, learned all about her aspirations (developing a business with her siblings, what kind of business they haven't decided yet), what she's studying (Econ), what sports she used to/loves to play (she competed on swim team in high school, did tennis for a while, played volleyball, etc. No sports at college though), where she was born, asked about her family's story (Chinese immigrants who carved their teeth in the US and became better off), all the good stuff.

Despite my raging hard on, it really was nice to listen to her. Really distracting with all the babes on campus though, holy shit, there are thousands more hot girls in California than in Seattle for sure. I don't know if it's just there's more skin showing or what, but damn.

But back on track to the ass, we sat down in a building to charge my phone. She had roommates still at her place, and my place had grandparents there, so no logistics, especially since it's daytime. So I'm flying out in a few days anyways, might as well make out with this Asian persuasion, give her some of her fantasies as well. I don't remember what we're talking about but I just slid my hand to the back of her head very sensually, didn't grab yet, just paused.

Then I turned her head toward me, put my lips close to hers but didn't kiss, and I could feel her pushing her to head to kiss me. Then I pulled her head toward me, kissed her hard, and then stopped and made a joke like Chase said to do (something like "After walking beside you all day, I actually get to see the lovely Victoria. Good change of pace"). She laughed, and then I immediately pulled her back into me.

We stopped, got up to explore the building. I wanted to makeout with her standing up, grab that ass the way you think God's as big. After finding a spot where nobody was, I threw her body against mine, kissed her passionately, grabbed her ass hard and pulled her pelvis into me, trying to grind her pussy on my leg. No resistance at all, she was moaning slightly as I forced her pussy onto my leg, clawing her body like a lion on the savannah. If we had logistics, or at least if I was ballsier and actually pulled her to a better logistical location, or scheduled to hangout with her again tonight after dinner with the family friends, she would have had some Savage cock in her. But I got lazy, didn't plan accordingly, didn't pull hard enough (didn't pull her to a true seduction location at all really). So might as well grab some ass, it is so damn easy.

Still trying to see if we can hangout tomorrow, but I doubt it, the sexual tension is gone. But who knows.

It's funny though because she kept trying to say she wasn't all that wild, that she's never been focused on boys since she grew up in a small town and there was always boy drama, whatever, all bullshit. Saying you're on Tinder just to check out guys when you're bored, but now you're out with one? Don't kid me sweetheart: You're a dirty girl. And I fucking love it.

See ya.

 

[Savage]

Hey, Savage!

Clever titling on your journal; definitely gives it that witty, eye-catching impression. I applaud you for taking it upon yourself to get out there and start approaching. I'm a beginner like you, and it definitely hasn't been easy for me either, but I have the feeling your fundamentals are much more solid than mine were judging by the looks these girls are giving you!

I can't say I'm at the point where I can give rock solid advice to you, but to me, my biggest sticking point right now was overthinking way too much about how I would approach "that girl." It took me awhile to realize that as a beginner you've gotta stop thinking about it and let your feet take you right next to her, smooth or not. Hope you won't have to take as long to figure that out as I did

Good luck in your endeavors,
Alex

Hey Alex, thanks for the input bro.

I believe in you man, you'll be drowning in pussy with enough hard work, that's what I believe. Never give up what you want. As I get better I'll be able to pass help onto others, for now I'm just trying to keep my mouth shut and listen to what others here have to say towards shit I'm working at.

I'm with you on the overthinking the approach, approach anxiety really is my Achilles heel for now. Not for long, but for now. You're 100% on the money though, "move it or lose it" is the cure for approaching problems. Thanks again for your input man!

 

[Savage]

I'm going to fucking rant and rage here.

I am DISGUSTED by the types of women I was dating before.
And I am DISGUSTED by how I viewed myself before, my self-image.



Once upon a time, I thought I wasn't worth the time of these babes out here, that I was a pussy and deserved to be ignored. That I couldn't be great. I got depressed all the fucking time, dated mediocrity, and slept on a bed of inadequacy when I wasn't sleeping next to a girl made of misery.

They were generally cute, nothing that you'd hide from in public, but they are truly nothing compared to what I can get, what I will get, and what I am getting now.

This Asian babe I made out with today? Hottest girl I've ever made out with, fucking model. And she was begging for cock.




This chick was hotter than every high school popular babe I went to school with, every girl I thought I could never get. And even better, there's tons more girls like her out there, and they can't fucking wait to meet me.

I'm writing this now because I'm climbing to the next level. And in doing so, you have to reflect on how your time was spent before and despise how much you wasted, you fucking fuel yourself with that hate and channel it so you never go back, so you keep pushing forward, LIKE A FUCKING #BEAST!!!

I spent fucking 6 years wrapped in depression, thinking I wasn't worth these girls time, thinking I'll never accomplish what I want in life, that it's too hard, that it's impossible, that there isn't anything better out there, that I should fucking end it all, that I should run away or die, and you know what... FUCK THAT!!!!




I wasted 2 years, 2 fucking years, dicking around in girls that had a bundle of emotional problems, depression, smoked pot, had mental breakdowns all the time, their life was a fucking mess. They were cute, but fuck was I stupid to waste time on them. You need to view every person who loves mediocrity, who doesn't want you to climb higher, that actually brings you down.... You need to view them as garbage. You don't roll around in garbage.

Be nice, be polite, whatever the fuck way you want to handle it with the losers in your life, but fucking ditch them any way you can. Remove all that shit in your life, IMMEDIATELY. Not tomorrow, not when they get back from vacation, do it now.




A lot of these problems, girls and my general well being, came from my poor self-image. Now? I can't even relate to that fucking guy anymore. I can't even understand why I felt that way, why I thought those B-ranking girls were great, why I couldn't believe in myself in all aspects of life.

Now? I'm getting unwarranted, unwanted texts from my ex-girlfriend because of her depression episodes, a girl I loved very much at the time, and now I can't even fucking stand. You are the definition of mediocrity. I'll be nice because I don't tear people down, but you have no place in my life. I'll be sensitive to your depression, but we are not friends.

Now? I'm getting opportunities in life I never had before with jobs and college and shit.

Now? I'm clawing the ass of a music video model hot Asian girl who turns heads and gets the even hotter babes noticing me. A girl that has ambitions, that doesn't have depression problems, that grew up with her parents together, that values family, that understands that you need to be obsessed with a goal to get there, that you make success for yourself, that doesn't do drugs because she has ambitions. What a fucking step up.




Remember, mediocrity is the disease. I'm disgusted, I am appalled at where I used to be at. I wanted to go over how I've gotten rid of these types of people, how I've improved since a few months ago and how much I am benefiting from it. I needed to take time to recognize that this new path is a fucking road to salvation. This isn't some faux post akin to "I'm trying to convince myself that I'm great, but deep down I know I'm not!" Fuck no. I'm macking on 10s now. I am a fucking winner, and I intend to stay one.

Are you average or are you savage? We're looking to take it to the next level.

See ya.

 

[Savage]

FR+: Asian Was the Persuasion (UPDATE)

I have an update for this field report, although not a LR. So this dime wanted to hangout again (her cock hunger must be hard to live with), and this is my last day in her city, so we scheduled up. I tried to get her to schedule with me later in the day so I could fuck her somewhere, but she said she wouldn't have time and we could hangout for an hour at 5.

So I go and we walk and talk again, the usual shit. She's uncomfortable with making out at first for some reason although she's still touching me and grabbing my arms and shit, so I don't know what the fuck was up with that. It doesn't matter though, later she was macking on me by my loaned car anyways.

So I suggest let's hangout at 10, and she literally is all for it now, despite saying she couldn't before. So we all know what she wants. Anyways, my folks are still home and I couldn't sneak her in here, and she had roommates that she didn't want to bring me back to, so at 10 pm, we walked, got yogurt, and turned out she had a secret plan to get me alone on the practice soccer field, so we ate our yogurt there (babes fucking love yogurt). Long story short, talked more, and then made out more, she climbed on top of me and started dry humping me, even knowing there was people playing late night soccer across the field.

Here's the dull part of the story, again she was cool with grabbing ass, now I progressed to rubbing her pussy from outside her tights, she's cool with all of that. But when it came to actually playing inside her, she wasn't down. So I ended up making out with her for over an hour while trying to get my fingers in her, show her my skill at handling her body, and then pull her somewhere to fuck.

So I switched strategies. I shoved her hand onto my cock outside my jeans, and then later down my pants and made her grip the whole thing. I started dirty talking to her saying things like "This is what you've been wanting... You're such a dirty girl... I love knowing that..." or "I want it inside you... Feeling everything about you, going in so slow and savoring every thrust..."

Keep in mind, originally when I was dirty talking to her throughout our makeout session, she'd giggle and act like I'm being ridiculous. Once her hand was on my dick, she was moaning instead and her breathing was getting faster and with more gasps. Don't know what to make of that, if that's just her personality or if I need to come across more aggressive.

Finally, I slowly tease my fingers to the waist of her tights, gently moved down and lightly touch her lips, and right as I dip my finger in, I hear "That wouldn't be good, I'm on my period" in a tone that suggests she really didn't want to tell me.

I immediately look up, and say "I don't fucking care at all. I'm going to fuck you anyways."

And then she was genuinely surprised that I didn't care, in a positive way. She said that she though guys thought it was weird, so obviously she felt I'd judge her for it. After talking about that, I could tell her demeanor was more open (later when I drove her back to her place, she started making jokes about being hot for me, which she had never done). However, she was still uncomfortable with getting period all over her good tights, and that long makeout session just wore down my enthusiasm so I didn't pull her to a corner to fuck or try to really get her to take me to her place.

I don't know whether to chalk up the No Lay to not being ballsy enough or just logistical problems as a whole, but I'm good either way, I got this babe to show her wild side to me, and when I'm back here in 4 months, I have a guaranteed lay for sure. If not, who cares, there's more girls out there hungry for dick.

 

[Savage]

Went out to the mall in search of white scoop neck shirt, no such luck, and no luck in the accomplishing my monthly goal.

However, at Bath and Body Works, I ran some smooth game on the girl who worked there, she was straight money. I deep dived a little bit, asking where she goes to school, what her dreams are, etc. I'm good at getting people to open up to me fast, but I'm not good at approaching or using that information to springboard into a pull, a date, etc.

Ultimately, I'm not going to consider this an indirect approach since she talked to me first.

The goal is still 10! I'm pumped, I can definitely kick this goal's ass! The reward of conquering this is just too sick to pass up! I can already imagine how many mad honey's I'll be getting once I'm approaching every girl I get hard for. Life is going to be sweet!

 

[Savage]

Approaching Situations to Get Better At

This is a list of situations I need to get more comfortable talking to girls in. These are listed in no particular order.

- Approach girls on the street walking towards you (opposite direction.) Also applies to malls.
- Approach girls on the street walking away from you (same direction). Also applies to malls.
- Approach girls standing alone
- Approach girls sitting down
- Approach girls in the female section of a store (Forever 21, H&M, etc.)
- Approach girls when they are with girl friends
- Approach girls when they are with guy friends
- Approach girls who are out with their family
- Approach girls at the grocery store
- Approach girls at the beach
- Approach older women (Love them MILFs man)
- Approach girls at the gym
- Approach girls at a party or group setting (nightclub or rave counts here)

Note: Not all of these have to be direct approaches. Situational or just plain social approaches count, because that comes in handy sometimes at the gym or a venue where she's going to be coming back anyways. The point here is just to get more comfortable talking to girls in general.

The biggest goal though is get comfortable approaching women while out alone.

 

[Savage]

Advice

I'm going to start tagging good advice pieces into this journal for me to memorize and take it to #nextlevel with.

ADVICE:
Every time you find yourself with a girl that seems uninterested, bored, "dumb," or even spiteful, STICK WITH IT UNTIL YOU ASK HER ON A DATE. Use a date request as a screening tool.



EXPLANATION:
Stick with these interactions until she fails your screen for a date. This way you're not leaving prematurely, this way you learn more, this way you learn how to close things out with girls that may seem uninterested but actually are, this way you look at results rather than reactions.

For more, read Radeng's first post here: viewtopic.php?f=3&t=10481

He states that the best screen for girls is asking them on a date: If they're interested, they'll take you up on it, if they're not interested, they'll pass. Much better than getting upset or calling out girls for not acting how you want them to act, which just comes across as insecure or like you're frustrated, which is weak. Use your attraction and interest in the girl as a screening tool instead, like a real lover of sweet walls would.

 

[Savage]

Advice


ADVICE: Process
1. Spot a girl you want to talk to
2. DON'T make eye contact
3. Position yourself near her
4. Pre-open her
5. Open her
6. Introduce yourself
7. Engage in some light banter
8. Get some early investment
9. Build some rapport
10. Close and get out, or move things along



Note: The first half doesn't completely apply to stuff like street game where everyone is on the move, but in general this process is solid.
Link: https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-a ... are-easily

 

[Savage]

Went out to the mall today bro.
I learned there is better traffic closer to around 2, I arrived at 3:40, so got the tail end of the high traffic time.


Pussied out on approaches again, but that's ok, because the fuck train has no breaks, I'll keep trying.
I missed a good 4 approach attempts that would be considered easy (girl sitting down alone, or standing alone).


Tomorrow, it's back in the game!

 

[Savage]

I went to the mall today again, more babes were there this time but fucking couldn't approach for the life of me, so I need a new avenue of approach. Something isn't working and trying to overcome this by sheer force of will isn't working on its own.

I read a Girlschase article from Ricardus where he advised bringing an mp3 player, so I'm going to bring my iPod like he said. Instead of music, I'm going to throw on those motivational videos and mp3s I listen to while on the way to the gym to make my arms look like erections by the time I'm done. Like a man is supposed to.

It seems my problem is I forget the macro goal when I'm out, I forget that this is about carving out the life I want, being the person I want to be, who I motherfucking choose to be. That's way more fucking important than choosing to be a pussy and not talk to girls because I'm scared what people will think or that they'll think I'm weird and shit.

I am bound and determined to accomplish this. I will do it, do not be mistaken about that.

 

[Savage]

Advice


Advice: Do your opener slowly

Found a kickass quote from Anatman that talks about slowing down your opener so it's not only less awkward and more successful, but also so it gets her panties dripping wet from the sexual way you open.

Slow down with it.

"Hey!"

(she turns)

"So...I saw you walking back there..." (turn around and point where you saw her; this diffuses scary stranger tension, too)

"And.." (turning back to her)

"I just thought, that you..." (look her up and down)

"looked INCREDIBLE in that dress" (inflex the compliment, the let the sentence "sit" and just look at her and smile")

Straight fucking dripping after an open like this.

Hector

 

[Savage]

Advice


Advice: Speak with a small degree of boredom, even if you are interested. Be slightly stoic, understated.

I can't remember which post Chase mentioned this in, but I do remember reading that you should speak with a slight degree of boredom, even if you are interested or if what the girl is talking about is quite remarkable, like if she's talking about her accomplishments.

Basically, you use your words to show interest in the subject ("Wow, that's amazing, how'd you get into that?") but your tonality has a slight degree of boredom to indicate you aren't blown out of the water or extremely amazed or anything. It's very similar to Harrison Ford's demeanor.

Example:

Him: "So what sports did you do in college?"
Her: "Well I was a tennis player, we actually made it to the championships too!"
Him: "Oh wow, I didn't realize I was talking to a star athlete. That's quite the accomplishment, though I'm sure the practices were rigorous." [said in an almost monotone voice, Harrison Ford style]
Her: "Yeah, one time our coach made us do 100 suicides before and after practice, was ridiculous!"
Him: "I certainly would to with a girl like you running around in those short shorts, I couldn't help it." [again, degree of boredom, like it's no big deal at all]
Her: "Oh my god haha you're so bad!"

 

[Savage]

Went out today, no approaches again!
Missed 2 very good opportunities, both girls were checking me out as we crossed paths. I didn't approach because I didn't catch their gaze until right as we crossed, and then I let it go. Gotta stop doing that!! These girls were so sexy, I could have been balls deep by now if I just said hi.

I'm noticing that my approach anxiety doesn't come as much from fear of rejection from her because of my attraction to her, but just social rejection as a whole. I'm more worried that the people around me will think I am weird for saying what's up, or just whatever irrational social repercussions I come up with in the moment.

I have to learn to get the fuck over that. Nobody really cares, and even if they did, so what? These girls LITERALLY want me to say hi and make their day by making them feel like beautiful girls, otherwise they wouldn't eye fuck me as we cross paths. But I'm too busy caring about what the Average Jane or Joe standing over there will be thinking if I approach, even though they are average, sexless, and depressed individuals who WISH they could approach who they liked and go after what they wanted. Are you going to let some nobody tell you you CAN'T do something? FUCK NO.

I'm too busy being worried about committing social faux pas' that I'm actually making it worse for the girls who are attracted to me when I don't approach, because when I don't they could very well be thinking they're not sexy or they're not dateable or fuckable. Honestly, how mean is that? Nobody wants to feel like that.

You have to approach these babes, you have to man the fuck up and give them what they want: some nice, strong and nonjudgemental cock. You do that by approaching.

You gotta help them unleash that urge to get ravaged by an absolute savage. You do that by approaching.

You get what you want by approaching. Let's try again tomorrow. Even if there's no luck, you're going to keep going, because "quitting" is a word that belongs in a loser's dictionary. A real man only has one page that reads: "Win."

See ya.