FR+ Awesome new years eve

[johnydones]

First of all , happy new year and all the best to Girls Chase community !

Let me share a story of the new years eve and how i managed to get 3 girls in just a few minutes each. I only used fundamentals and preselection , minimal talking . I am interested in your opinions guys, i know its a long read but it sums up everything i learned at Girls Chase.

My friend ,his girl-friend (she was actually his friend , not GF) and I went to this club for new years eve and that girl was a solid 8 , among the best looking girls in the club. I realized that there is no attraction between us (took me few seconds for that ) and i said to myself it does not matter , i will use her for preselection. This is actually the first time i used preselection on purpose , and it worked very well.

At the club i took a walk around it , moving as slow as a snail and when i got back one cute younger girl approached me while i was dancing with our girl-friend and said "lets dance!"

So, Girl No.1 :
-Now this is something that i do since i am by no means a good dancer , im actually terrible at it.
-I reached my arm and pulled her towards me, as close as like we are gonna kiss , then push back, give her a sexy smile and Eye contact, then pull her back , take her arms in a very manly manner , put them behind her back and press her against me while giving her strong EC. This tends to work well ,if she is younger she will have no option but to kiss you, or if she is experienced sexual tension will sky-rocket. This girl was quite young and she said "no ,i can't , i have a boyfriend" and few seconds after that she kissed me. I did not have intention to get serious with this girl so after about 30 minutes we returned to the table and i made myself scarce by going to different section of the club with my friend.

This is where second girl comes along

Girl No.2
My friend approached a group of girls , 5 of them , and i just stood there for few seconds with bored look ( use this often!!) before this girl approached me , she said nothing (like she got cold feet), i just took her hand , gave her eye contact and smiled like (i know, it's okay). She pressed against me and after about 10 seconds we were making out. This one was without a doubt the fastest hookup i managed to pull.
I got cock-blocked by her friend few minutes after (she wanted me for herself i know it, because later i talked to her a bit and she was interested for sure, she said "you must show that you care only about one girl in the group" ) but i guess i was flirting with all 5 , whoops
The best thing is that now, every girl in that section of the club was looking at me, even married ones (i reached my hand to one girl and she showed me the ring lol).

After these 5 girls went home the 3rd girl gave me some obvious eye contact so i approached.

Girl No.3
i approached her ,took her hand (this hand sh*t is powerful , use it as much as you can) , she said "where is your girlfriend, i saw you kissing there with her" (talking about preselection!). I said she was not my girlfriend , she made WTF face We talked for about a minute before i started escalating , and when it got serious she said "no, i have a boyfriend" (where did i hear that before lol ) I did not make out with her , it was quite interesting, but i think that she really had a BF , and she was quite chatty , which i was not in a mood for, plus Girl No1 was better looking so i went back to her.

I spent a bit more time with girl No.1 , and the night was over at 4am , my friend took a number from one of the 5 girls , i did not want to bother , they were mostly much younger then me and it's just nice to watch how awesome the stuff i learned here is.

Sorry for wall of text , i hope that i made a slight contribution to our fellow beginners here , and i would like to hear your opinion , would you do something differently then what i did ?

Best wishes
-John

 

[Nojas]

Re: FR+ : Awesome new years eve

Hey

Congrats man! Sounds like fun. Having a great night where girls chase you certainely does feel rewarding. Well played with the preselection, that's something I haven't done consciously yet.

My advice based on what i read here (which concurrs with my personnal experience): If you want to get better at it, lower your standards and give it a try even if she's not your dream girl.

Happy new year man

Nojas

 

[Verisimilitude]

Re: FR+ : Awesome new years eve

This is great for confidence, great for trying out new techniques, but how much did you actually accomplish? What's the point of being "the man" of the club if you don't take a girl home? I guess if your goal was to get a couple make-outs, boosting your ego, and try out some moves, you succeeded. No offense or anything, I just want to see what you were shooting for here. I think the ultimate goal of most outings should be to either 1. Get a couple numbers or 2. Get laid. But again, that's my personal opinion and it depends on your goals for the outing.

As for advice, I'd avoid making out with girls on the dance floor as much. I think most of those girls were looking to get attention. Pre-selection works both ways and girls love attention. This is why I rarely kiss girls in a club. They get what they want, then their friends pull them away. Kissing also puts their girlfriends on alert. They think, "uh-oh she's really into him. Better save her before she ends up looking like a slut/making a mistake". Most guys don't really care about that, but other girls will see it, activate their anti-slut defense, and it'll be really tough to fight it. Stopping it on one girl is tough, but a group is even more advanced. It'll be easier to pull girls when you don't kiss them in the club.

My second piece of advice is to not worry about age. There's a good article about this on the main page. It seems like one of those classic excuses guys use for not going for a girl that they end up regretting. I've caught myself doing this before. I'll think, "Oh she's only ok" or, "oh she only gave me two or three looks", or, "this isn't the right time" and I miss out on a lot of quality women because of it. Don't make things harder than they have to be.

So four points:

1. The goal of an outing (most of the time) is a number or lay.
2. Making out with girls in the club is usually a no-no.
3. Age is a number, don't let it stop you (unless she's underage).
4. If you want a number or can get one, say what the hell and get it. Girls give their numbers out a ton, and guys should ask for them more. You're not asking her out on a date, its just her number.

 

[johnydones]

Re: FR+ : Awesome new years eve

Hey guys , thanks for replies,

@xcrunner , great advice as usual !

In my opinion i accomplished to try out few new things i learned at Girls Chase , and polish my fundamentals further. 3 months ago i was just some quiet guy in the club and it really boosts my ego to see almost every girl in the club looking at me, smiling etc.. I hope that's something , i reckon that until summer i will have other aspects covered , but fundamentals are my main focus at this moment.
Ohh, and i did get 2 numbers , did not think it's that important to mention , i don't think anything serious will come out of it
The point of that night was to have fun , and dancing with Girl No.1 was quite fun , second girl looked very insecure and i thought what the hell , ill give you some attention , you deserve it. she was happy about it but as you said , her friend pulled her away soon after. I have one more example from last night below.

As for your advice in second paragraph , YOU ARE SPOT ON about this! , let me elaborate :

You are completely right that preselection works both ways , i just did not not realize until you mentioned it. When i turned my back for 5 minutes hordes of guys were upon the girl No.1 , but until she was seen with me none of them were approaching.

What you said about girls friends anti-slut defense is also true,
Last night i started talking with one girl in toilet and about 10 seconds later i started escalating (no making out but lots of touch) and her friend came out of the toilet 1 minute later , i told my girl that she should come with me to my table , she was up for it , but her friend said NO, took her hand and there was nothing i could do to change her mind. Later , i met that girl again , we danced a bit but her friend intervened again. I tried to soften her friend a bit but no luck , she was stone cold. They were leaving soon after and i just said to the girl i was interested in "it was nice meeting you , you look like a really cute girl, too bad we did not have time to get to know each other"
I did not ask for phone number since she was leaving , few articles mentioned that it's not a good idea to ask for phone number at that point.

I guess i will stop with those makeouts and just ask for phone number instead. I just do not know what to do with her if she constantly goes for the kiss , i guess she will auto-reject if i keep refusing for long time , what do you think ?

 

[luego]

Re: FR+ : Awesome new years eve

They were leaving soon after and i just said to the girl i was interested in "it was nice meeting you , you look like a really cute girl, too bad we did not have time to get to know each other"
I did not ask for phone number since she was leaving , few articles mentioned that it's not a good idea to ask for phone number at that point.

I don't understand this. Yes, it's been clearly proven that high-point/casual/etc number grabs are ideal. But if you're literally never going to see this girl again, what harm comes from taking a late stab at it? Especially if you're able to just treat it as "just a number", and devote only appropriate effort into converting it.

 

[Verisimilitude]

Re: FR+ : Awesome new years eve

I guess i will stop with those makeouts and just ask for phone number instead. I just do not know what to do with her if she constantly goes for the kiss , i guess she will auto-reject if i keep refusing for long time , what do you think ?

There are two articles on this that I think can help you here. The first is:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/tacti ... floor-game

And here's the second:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/how- ... t-go-great

Those will pretty much cover kissing girls in public. The biggest piece of advice I have is to figure out where you're going with a girl quickly. By that I mean, you meet a girl and in a couple minutes think, "ok I'm gonna try to take this girl home" or, "This can happen, the logistics aren't right so I'll get her number" or, "I'm just trying to have fun and escalate as quickly as possible so I'm gonna see how far I can go in here". This is really tough to do at first, because most guys make stuff up on the fly. I noticed that I'd be talking to girls, dancing, and then talking again, but not getting anywhere. At some point, things would stall and they'd leave. When I have a clear end in mind, this didn't happen. I was actively progressing towards each part in my process, not mucking around hoping to strike gold.

And working on fundamentals is awesome, but I like to take things a step further. I'll write three goals in a note on my phone for the night. One or two can be abstract like, "use good posture", or "use sexy facial expressions", but at least one has to be a concrete tangible goal. Examples like, "kiss a girl", "meet three new girls", "get two numbers", or "invite two girls home with me". That way I have results and I can actively see progress. Mixing the two also keeps them connected. You get to see where the theory meets the practice.

I don't understand this. Yes, it's been clearly proven that high-point/casual/etc number grabs are ideal. But if you're literally never going to see this girl again, what harm comes from taking a late stab at it? Especially if you're able to just treat it as "just a number", and devote only appropriate effort into converting it.

I agree here too. Ideally, you would have said let me get your number while touching the girl, but if things happen where you can't don't be afraid to just go for it. A late stab is better than nothing.

 

[johnydones]

Re: FR+ : Awesome new years eve

I don't understand this. Yes, it's been clearly proven that high-point/casual/etc number grabs are ideal. But if you're literally never going to see this girl again, what harm comes from taking a late stab at it? Especially if you're able to just treat it as "just a number", and devote only appropriate effort into converting it.

Yes, it crossed my mind after i said everything , turned and walked away , one of those "F**K why didn't i ask for the number" moments. O well , +1 XP and let's move forward.

I read those articles but maybe it's time to revisit them again. Thanks !

 

[Rebel]

Re: FR+ : Awesome new years eve

If the conversation is going well, the girl will most likely give you her number.

I've gotten girls' numbers before making out with them and after. Don't think there's necessarily an optimal time to ask for it.