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[CaptainHenley]

How is it going chaps,

I would like to ask for your guidance on this one.

Life for me has been pretty rough during this time period. I have endured hardships, and faced a lot of let downs.

That said, there seem to be many problems concerning my social life aswell.
After discovering girlschase a few months ago, I was on the right track. Seeing results in every aspect of my social life had me very optimistic about the future.

But now, things have turned for the worse. I have lost my self-respect, self-esteem, and self confidence. That has cost me the respect of men and women alike. I was always a natural leader, of course nothing compared to the things a person can achieve by reading this material, but nevertheless above average when it came to leading. Now I see myself isolated more and more, falling into the void of rejection, bitterness, and depression, things I never really struggled with before.

Of course, those things cause smaller problems, like my body language, which only seems to project more weakness over time, or my inability to pass simple dominance 'tests" from men and women, aswell as a complete lack of frame control.

I'd really appreciate your help on guiding me on where to begin again, and start embarking on this journey once again.
(It should be mentioned that I dont just struggle with women only, but with social interactions in general)

Cheers

 

[Ergon]

Why do you think you backslided?

I'm guessing your result didn't match what you expected or you probably stopped approaching girls or working on your skills for fear of failing even more.
Don't isolate yourself completely, try to do some day/night approaches, assist social events, find your niche; something you feel you are really good at and gives you good feelings.
Take a break from a certain social circle or venue if you need to.

Proactively working on some aspect of your game and social skills at all times and having success there will give you confidence and skills that will translate to your social life in general and even other aspects of life.

Use your hardships and failures to push yourself do things differently, fail again, learn from your mistakes and eventually you'll the results that show you are getting it.

 

[CaptainHenley]

Hey thanks a lot..... I tried what you said, yet here I am,


4 months later, facing the same problems.

Anyone who can offer their 2 cents?

Edit: The failures and backslides I mentioned dont have to do with approaching girls, but with life in general

 

[JRob]

I've been there man. Worst than you think I have. Is there something that you're passionate about? Do that. It doesn't really matter as long as it's some and a thing. It doesn't mean that there will be no low points, but the high points should be worth it. If you're bored with what you're doing, then do something else. There is a vast universe of possibilities, and the dark days make the light that much brighter. Think about it.