Bad reputation in my town + might have Doxxed myself

[Water]

Well u live in a city, right so surely u're not known by everyone? Okay maybe u are, but what I wud say is that u might have to except that u've lost status for now. So it's merely on ur social skills that ppl think u're a virgin? Bcoz I was a virgin a 25 but ppl didn't know it! If u went away to college then often ppl wud sort of assume u'd have lost ur virginity there.

Might all this have more to do with ur actions that resulted in u being fired? Wud that be worth reflecting on?

what's neet mean?

I think neet is a new term thats supposed to be some kind of insult line “weeb”, my gamer friends use it.

 

[Dash of Englishness]

I think neet is a new term thats supposed to be some kind of insult line “weeb”, my gamer friends use it.

I don't even know what a weeb is!

"Weeb" is a derogatory slang term, often shortened from "weeaboo," used to describe a non-Japanese person who is excessively obsessed with Japanese culture, particularly anime and manga.

 

[Water]

I don't even know what a weeb is!

"Weeb" is a derogatory slang term, often shortened from "weeaboo," used to describe a non-Japanese person who is excessively obsessed with Japanese culture, particularly anime and manga.

Just nerdy terms, not worth knowing imo. No cool person talks like this.

 

[Marley]

Well u live in a city, right so surely u're not known by everyone? Okay maybe u are, but what I wud say is that u might have to except that u've lost status for now. So it's merely on ur social skills that ppl think u're a virgin? Bcoz I was a virgin a 25 but ppl didn't know it! If u went away to college then often ppl wud sort of assume u'd have lost ur virginity there.

Might all this have more to do with ur actions that resulted in u being fired? Wud that be worth reflecting on?

what's neet mean?

Honestly I've kinda fucked my reputation with quite a few people tbh. City is 3 mil but its pretty small. I might be screwed tbh. NEET = Not in Employment, Education or Training.

 

[Water]

Honestly I've kinda fucked my reputation with quite a few people tbh. City is 3 mil but its pretty small. I might be screwed tbh. NEET = Not in Employment, Education or Training.

How did you mess up your reputation with quite a few people? That would be difficult to do even on purpose… Please elaborate with details, maybe we can help prevent this from happening again.

 

[Marley]

How did you mess up your reputation with quite a few people? That would be difficult to do even on purpose… Please elaborate with details, maybe we can help prevent this from happening again.

I might be overly paranoid/exaggerating but I've been pretty antisocial since high school. Everyone from high school new me as the quite kid who didn't talk to anybody. Pretty who remember probably still think I'm a virgin. I've run into a couple people from my high school while out and about downtown and they've recognized me. On top of the fact I messed up my status at the mall I worked at. I just feel more paranoid now. Again I'm probably just being overly paranoid about things but feels like my rep is on the line.

 

[OldGuy]

If you have a reputation as quiet, people will be surprised to find you are now social, but they will be pleased.

 

[Marley]

If you have a reputation as quiet, people will be surprised to find you are now social, but they will be pleased.

The fact that I potentially doxxed myself doesn’t really make me feel any better though.

 

[OldGuy]

Being quiet is not seen as negative, if you can still approach. That you do approach is very positive versus someone who greets everyone who seems too much like someone is selling something.