Well u live in a city, right so surely u're not known by everyone? Okay maybe u are, but what I wud say is that u might have to except that u've lost status for now. So it's merely on ur social skills that ppl think u're a virgin? Bcoz I was a virgin a 25 but ppl didn't know it! If u went away to college then often ppl wud sort of assume u'd have lost ur virginity there.
Might all this have more to do with ur actions that resulted in u being fired? Wud that be worth reflecting on?
what's neet mean?