FR BAR cute blonde

[WinnerWinner]

Last night I met up with a great friend of mine, his sister and his girlfriend at the cocktail bar I am voluntarily promoting for. A great place for warming up.

We got some high-quality cocktails and headed to our regular bar. I was hungry so I went to get something to eat while they went inside. When I came in they were sitting at a table with two girls I didn't knew. A cute blonde and a brunette. I quickly realized that my friends had also just met them.

I knew who I wanted of these two. My friends sister was sitting beside the blonde. She had to get a new drink, so I took her place and I was suddenly talking with the blonde

Everything went very natural, I was non-needy, I enjoyed my time and I was a bit playful. She began to punch me lightly. While I was getting to know this girl, her friend, the brunette one, who was interested in my friend, found out that the girl next to him was his girlfriend, so she got totally down and boring and eventually made the blonde girl feel bad about it, so they went downstairs.

I was like, hmm.. it went well.. now what? and forgot about it. Things was stall when they left so I told my friends girlfriend to go downstairs and dance.

We danced but without much emotion in it. Just didn't feel it. GF close friend was coming and she had to talk on the phone with her, so we went upstairs again.

A bit later we went down again and I saw the blonde from before. We hit eye-contact and I automatically moved from GF to her and we danced. She puts her arm around me and said, "I've always wanted to dance like this" her head besides mine. Her arms on my shoulders. The music were rolling but we were moving in our own speed, intimately, slowly and closely.

Me: "Yeah ok. You get one dance"

She smiled satisfied. 15 seconds in I said, "Times up"

can't remember what happened but we began to kiss.

Asked her about logistics. She was living with two guys in an apartment. But she also told me that she was going to another guy tonight to sleep at his house.

I played offended and "why are you doing this with me then??" which she answered, "I don't know.. you are just so sweet!"

Gave her my number she didn't have her phone on her, it was in her jacket, so I got hers. Her: "Text me!!"

I head back upstairs to our table.

Fast forward - She was going to leave with her brunette friend. Said goodbye. Then came in again and I grabbed her hand. We begin to kiss again and she said, "The guy didn't answer me".

I'm like ok. So I'm your second best option now?

Blablabla..

She said, "text me.. text me!!" at the doors before leaving. I looked at her and looked away. I wouldn't text her and she knew that.

So I went up to get some water and I see that she was standing there at our table, haven't left together with the brunette.

When I was leaving and saying goodbye, my friends girlfriend kissed me on my chin, and her friend too. They looked like they wanted a foursome or something lol.

Long adventure short: I took her to another bar and then we went home to her.


If anyone has some good stuff about giving a girl, who has never had an orgasm, have one, please let me know!

 

[AFCnoob]

I'm not sure how to classify your post. From your story, it's definitely an FR+, not an FR, and it sounds like it might be an FR++ (you said you went home "together", to "her--place" (she lives with dudes)?). It could even be an LR--you didn't mention if you closed or not, but asked for advice on giving a girl an orgasm (I usually just figure out if they need their legs open or closed and use manual stimulation of the clitoris with a finger in, works every time).

She seemed really into you, seems like you did a good job chase framing and keeping her guessing til the end, and not supplicating at all (putting a time limit on your dance, making it clear you weren't into texting her or playing second fiddle to some other dude). I am curious as to how the night actually ended and the specific categorization of your interaction though. At any rate, thanks for sharing!

 

[Ross]

Sounds like the interaction went pretty well, except I'm a little confused on what happened in the end due to the wording.

Asked her about logistics. She was living with two guys in an apartment. But she also told me that she was going to another guy tonight to sleep at his house.

I played offended and "why are you doing this with me then??" which she answered, "I don't know.. you are just so sweet!"

To you that might have sounded playful, but to her it might have sounded needy. Having a reaction based on the fact that she was sleeping at another guys house that shows offense to her statements that she has other guys isn't exactly smart, and that might have been a test to see your reaction. A better reaction would be to downright ignore the statement without ignoring her, and just keeping the interaction moving along smoothly. Keep in mind that hot girls do have guys on standby, and you are not the only choice she has for sleeping with someone tonight.

If anyone has some good stuff about giving a girl, who has never had an orgasm, have one, please let me know!

There's a whole post on giving girls an orgasm on the website. If she's never had one before she might be a bit nervous on fully letting go, or she might not be extremely sexual yet simply because she hasn't enjoyed the pleasure of an orgasm. Allow her to let go and, with a little bit of skill, she will experience one.

 

[WinnerWinner]

To you that might have sounded playful, but to her it might have sounded needy. Having a reaction based on the fact that she was sleeping at another guys house that shows offense to her statements that she has other guys isn't exactly smart, and that might have been a test to see your reaction. A better reaction would be to downright ignore the statement without ignoring her, and just keeping the interaction moving along smoothly. Keep in mind that hot girls do have guys on standby, and you are not the only choice she has for sleeping with someone tonight.

Actually only one change was needed in the wording but I think she saw it like "blaming her" for seducing me.

"why are you doing this with me then??"
vs.
"why are you doing this to me then??"

Ahh I remember this as an actually great seduction adventure. There were lots of things I did naturally and wasn't conscious of because in the moments, I sincerely felt unattached and not needing her, yet I would love to f*** her. Kind of interesting and many things that can be learned from...

To clear confusions, I did sleep with the girl at her house. She was quite into it..

She asked if I had a condom but had none, so eventually we decided that I had to go to the nearest 7eleven to get one. They were sold out.

We couldn't get a hold of a condom but when I came back and told her, she was ok doing it without...