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Space Monkey
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Living in nyc now and trying to take advantage of this opportunity to refine my game and get some crazy experiences

I’ve been dealing with moving and settling down for the past couple of months so I haven’t had the chance to game as much but I’m mostly settled now and I’ll be a lot more consistent.

New year developments:
- Getting back into daygame: reading the LRs from James D and co has given me a lot of motivation to fully devote myself to daygame
- Pulling back from night game. I think I’m starting to burnt out from night game. I had a lot of fun with it especially in college but I can’t get around my lack of consistency so I’m switching gears for a bit. I might come back to it so we’ll see
- So far, I’ve only had 2 lays in 3 months (I’ve been too lazy to write lay reports but I don’t think there’s much learning to be had from those LRs anyway)
 

barneystin

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Hate to lament on here but it seems I might have hit a plateau. Still trying to figure out day game in nyc given it’s colder now and I’m busy at work most of the week.

I hate doing online game (I do have 1 girl I’m seeing from online at the moment) and I’m getting burnt out from night game - too little results/consistency given how much time I put into it.

Snagged my 11th lay a couple weeks ago but it just seems like I’ve hit the maximum level I can get to given my current fundamentals/looks.
I could obviously get that number up but quality and consistency are the most important things to me at the moment.

it seems like the only way to go up from here is to either massively improve fundamentals and/or take coaching both of which are pretty expensive so I’ll have to figure this out

Has anyone faced a similar plateau?
 
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