Ok, it's Moolar in the building! How y'all doing buddies? Awesome,yeah?
Anyways, away with pleasantries....let's get this boat rolling!
Let me start off by saying that, it's quite unfortunate that, for majority of aspiring seducers, the biggest thrill they derive from seducing women isn't in the sex or the possession of their glorious, curvaceous bodies. Rather, it's in letting the whole world hear and know about all their sexual exploits and trophies. I've been guilty of this myself...though, over the last year or so, I have made it a point to condition myself to always focus on what's most important, and disregard the non-isssues. To me, BJs are more important than talk.
For me, one of such non-issues is the insatiable tendency of wanting to inform the whole world of the "who and who" we have slept with. Not a macho thing to do. As I've mentioned in some of my previous posts, I currently live in Lagos, Nigeria (for those of you who don't know where that is, it's in West Africa). And over here, every damn soul places a high premium on marriage. Evolutionarily, I have come to understand why this fanatical emphasis on marriage persists.
Anyways, because of the intense emphasis on marriage, girls are fain to jealously protect their reputations, their parents too, adding muscle to ensuring that their daughters are found eligible and worthy of marriage to any would-be suitor(s). It's really a crazy thing, how these girls, despite their increasing promiscuity, still work round the clock to appear and be perceived as decent and madonna-like. But then, that's how the dog barks on this side of the meridian. Sadly, it is still going to take a few decades to de-emphasize the whole hoopla about marriage and whatnot.
Now, this whole reputation thing presents a bit of a dilemma for the girls: how to have as much fun(partying, casual sex, etc) as necessary, and still be able to maintain that madonna-like persona that providers base their marriages upon. Interestingly, I have come to understand that, just about any girl out there completely understands, to genius levels, this mad game of pretense and hypocrisy. They are masters at playing it too.
The sixty-four thousand dollar question
So how do these bitties navigate this treacherous waters of promiscuity and reputation management?
1. When they are as horny as they can ever get, they seek out alpha males, preferably males who have the littlest of ties to them, whom they believe would never rat them out, all things being equal.
2. They seek males far away from their social circles.
3. They project this holier-than-thou persona whenever they are in the midst of families, friends, etc.
4. They are quick to spew biblical quotations and preachments to you just to test you and see how you respond. Lol. Yeah, they can be that crazy!
Anyways, what is this whole piece all about?
Yesterday, a girl whom I had had one sexual experience with in the past(no strings attached + plus we still talk via chats occasionally), texted to know if I was home. I was home. So she dropped by. To cut a long story short, she came with the proposal of making me her FWB. Is she raving crazy? Nope. Why then, would she do that? Hear her...."Well, I am tired of guys messing up my feelings each and every time. All I want now is a fuckbuddy, who understands what I want and duly services me whenever my hormones are amok! I've got too many important stuffs going on for me to allow the toxic emotions of bad relationships drag me down.". And yeah, she spoke those exact words. Anyways, I smiled after hearing her. I asked her this...."Why did you choose me?". Hear her again,pals....
....."Because, after the sexual trip i took with you some time in the past, you didn't rat me out. Plus, though I had feared you would not even have my time again, you still talked with me just as though we never had sex. You acted very mature before the sex, and even more mature after it. Thank you very much". You should seen how proud of myself I was hearing her. Lol.
Of course, I accepted her proposal...though, I was quick to let her know that she may be the one to start catching feelings too soon. She laughed it off and rebuked me. Anyways, I now have me a fuckbuddy, guys. And you know why? 'Cause I kept my fucking mouth shut!
Lessons learned
- keep your gaping mouth shut! It will ruin your long term goals if you don't.
- if people do not deliberately treat you bad, don't treat them bad. It begets respect.
- never be timid to "tactfully and reasonably" express your sexual interest in women. They will remember you when their hormones run amok.
- don't fucking judge no woman, you are not God! It makes them respect you and open up to you.
I hope you could pick one or two bits of wisdom from this.
Thanks for reading.
Anyways, away with pleasantries....let's get this boat rolling!
Let me start off by saying that, it's quite unfortunate that, for majority of aspiring seducers, the biggest thrill they derive from seducing women isn't in the sex or the possession of their glorious, curvaceous bodies. Rather, it's in letting the whole world hear and know about all their sexual exploits and trophies. I've been guilty of this myself...though, over the last year or so, I have made it a point to condition myself to always focus on what's most important, and disregard the non-isssues. To me, BJs are more important than talk.
For me, one of such non-issues is the insatiable tendency of wanting to inform the whole world of the "who and who" we have slept with. Not a macho thing to do. As I've mentioned in some of my previous posts, I currently live in Lagos, Nigeria (for those of you who don't know where that is, it's in West Africa). And over here, every damn soul places a high premium on marriage. Evolutionarily, I have come to understand why this fanatical emphasis on marriage persists.
Anyways, because of the intense emphasis on marriage, girls are fain to jealously protect their reputations, their parents too, adding muscle to ensuring that their daughters are found eligible and worthy of marriage to any would-be suitor(s). It's really a crazy thing, how these girls, despite their increasing promiscuity, still work round the clock to appear and be perceived as decent and madonna-like. But then, that's how the dog barks on this side of the meridian. Sadly, it is still going to take a few decades to de-emphasize the whole hoopla about marriage and whatnot.
Now, this whole reputation thing presents a bit of a dilemma for the girls: how to have as much fun(partying, casual sex, etc) as necessary, and still be able to maintain that madonna-like persona that providers base their marriages upon. Interestingly, I have come to understand that, just about any girl out there completely understands, to genius levels, this mad game of pretense and hypocrisy. They are masters at playing it too.
The sixty-four thousand dollar question
So how do these bitties navigate this treacherous waters of promiscuity and reputation management?
1. When they are as horny as they can ever get, they seek out alpha males, preferably males who have the littlest of ties to them, whom they believe would never rat them out, all things being equal.
2. They seek males far away from their social circles.
3. They project this holier-than-thou persona whenever they are in the midst of families, friends, etc.
4. They are quick to spew biblical quotations and preachments to you just to test you and see how you respond. Lol. Yeah, they can be that crazy!
Anyways, what is this whole piece all about?
Yesterday, a girl whom I had had one sexual experience with in the past(no strings attached + plus we still talk via chats occasionally), texted to know if I was home. I was home. So she dropped by. To cut a long story short, she came with the proposal of making me her FWB. Is she raving crazy? Nope. Why then, would she do that? Hear her...."Well, I am tired of guys messing up my feelings each and every time. All I want now is a fuckbuddy, who understands what I want and duly services me whenever my hormones are amok! I've got too many important stuffs going on for me to allow the toxic emotions of bad relationships drag me down.". And yeah, she spoke those exact words. Anyways, I smiled after hearing her. I asked her this...."Why did you choose me?". Hear her again,pals....
....."Because, after the sexual trip i took with you some time in the past, you didn't rat me out. Plus, though I had feared you would not even have my time again, you still talked with me just as though we never had sex. You acted very mature before the sex, and even more mature after it. Thank you very much". You should seen how proud of myself I was hearing her. Lol.
Of course, I accepted her proposal...though, I was quick to let her know that she may be the one to start catching feelings too soon. She laughed it off and rebuked me. Anyways, I now have me a fuckbuddy, guys. And you know why? 'Cause I kept my fucking mouth shut!
Lessons learned
- keep your gaping mouth shut! It will ruin your long term goals if you don't.
- if people do not deliberately treat you bad, don't treat them bad. It begets respect.
- never be timid to "tactfully and reasonably" express your sexual interest in women. They will remember you when their hormones run amok.
- don't fucking judge no woman, you are not God! It makes them respect you and open up to you.
I hope you could pick one or two bits of wisdom from this.
Thanks for reading.
