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Hi Guys,
When you try to be good with women, you will force things from time to time. Given an example, you will try to not appear as "boyfriend material" but because everyone knows how cool you are in a social circle, some girls will sometimes slow things down. (not all the time, depends on male authority if you have)
This is where most men will give a stern "no", something where they become rigid. They will insist the "not boyfriend material" notion. This is like lying to people upfront about things people already know.
This doesn't go well sometimes depending on social circles. So as a guy, What do you do? You have to be flexible and guide the direction of how things are going. It's not always a straight road to getting what you want.
p.s: It isn't just social circles. this has lots of variations where women get to know you by outside inteference and you have to take the middle line.
Zac
When you try to be good with women, you will force things from time to time. Given an example, you will try to not appear as "boyfriend material" but because everyone knows how cool you are in a social circle, some girls will sometimes slow things down. (not all the time, depends on male authority if you have)
This is where most men will give a stern "no", something where they become rigid. They will insist the "not boyfriend material" notion. This is like lying to people upfront about things people already know.
This doesn't go well sometimes depending on social circles. So as a guy, What do you do? You have to be flexible and guide the direction of how things are going. It's not always a straight road to getting what you want.
p.s: It isn't just social circles. this has lots of variations where women get to know you by outside inteference and you have to take the middle line.
Zac
