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Thank you in advance for the help. I am a bit stumped on this one.
Approach
On Saturday I approached very cute au pair girl at the beach (I was with wingman, she was with friend), we flirted a bit and I grabbed her number and suggested we meet for coffee sometime. My friend was denied number by her friend (boyfriend excuse). The girl seemed very flirty and even nervous (in a good way), my wingman who is quite honest agreed with this strongly.
Prior Texts
I texted her a few hours later just a "nice to meet you hope you enjoy the rest of the beautiful day *emoji" text. and no response (but read after a few hours)
The next day I go for a call, and she doesn't pick up but texts me one minute later "hi christian, how are you?" and I talk a bit about my day and we have enthusiastic back and forth sharing emojis and information about ourselves (where we are from, interests, future plans etc) both responding quickly like within a few minutes for around 45 min-1hour or so. Eventually I had to do something so didn't respond for 2 hours, but responded to her last question in a way that didn't really warrant a response.
The next day (yesterday) I send a nice message "happy (first?) labor day, hope it is a great one for you
" and she reads it within a few minutes but doesn't respond. I was planning on trying to make plans there had she responded.
What next?
I am trying to figure out what the read is on the situation. Is she being coy and wanting me to be more direct and ask her out formally? Or do I need to build up more comfort friendliness, and how would I do this without losing momentum. Any guidance or tips would be appreciated. Thank you
Approach
On Saturday I approached very cute au pair girl at the beach (I was with wingman, she was with friend), we flirted a bit and I grabbed her number and suggested we meet for coffee sometime. My friend was denied number by her friend (boyfriend excuse). The girl seemed very flirty and even nervous (in a good way), my wingman who is quite honest agreed with this strongly.
Prior Texts
I texted her a few hours later just a "nice to meet you hope you enjoy the rest of the beautiful day *emoji" text. and no response (but read after a few hours)
The next day I go for a call, and she doesn't pick up but texts me one minute later "hi christian, how are you?" and I talk a bit about my day and we have enthusiastic back and forth sharing emojis and information about ourselves (where we are from, interests, future plans etc) both responding quickly like within a few minutes for around 45 min-1hour or so. Eventually I had to do something so didn't respond for 2 hours, but responded to her last question in a way that didn't really warrant a response.
The next day (yesterday) I send a nice message "happy (first?) labor day, hope it is a great one for you
What next?
I am trying to figure out what the read is on the situation. Is she being coy and wanting me to be more direct and ask her out formally? Or do I need to build up more comfort friendliness, and how would I do this without losing momentum. Any guidance or tips would be appreciated. Thank you