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If it is game material you are looking for, go for the classics such as Real World Seduction 2.0 by Swinggcat. I also really recommend Gunwitch's Seduction MMA.
Girlschase also offers good basic courses such as One date. On my end I only read GC articles these days and if for sure covers every aspects of seduction, although it can be a bit overwhelming.
thanks, i will check them out !
do i need any background or are these resources beginner friendly ?
yes, even if i am not 'gaming' right now, GC has opened up my eyes to ALOT of things ! like how girls say one thing but do the EXACT opposite, just because their desires are dictating their actions not the words the speak at any point in time !
case in point, i used to be a dumbass who thought that having a car would impress girls. except that cars are expensive af in the country
and girls, even though they're conservative af here ( Pakistan ), would definitely check out a guy who had tight fundamentals ( even if there is no concept of hookups in Pakistan )
overwhelming? how ?
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Well the question is, if you want to be spoon-fed or if you want the most efficient material. Beginner friendly material tends to be overly repetitive and oversimplified.
Maybe the exception is One Date by Girlschase. But at the same time, it is a VERY long product.
Well GC has way too many articles. It can be hard at times for beginners to figure out what they should concentrate on "right now" and what they should read at a later occasion etc. GC is like an encyclopedia - a huge library. It covers everything, but if you don't know what to look for.... things can be hard.
But Chase made these "you are new" and quizzes that gives you a free ebook that tells you which articles you should read for your current level etc.
PS: moved this thread its own, since it is now derailing from the OP.
Sorry for derailing, i didn't realize
i agree, spoon feeding is never good.
however, game can be tricky in some places ( like in my country
) and thus beginner context is so much more important, especially for people who have no or little experience in dating ( guilty as charged ! )i know game is about being confident and outward in a good, suggestive way. however, deep down i will be humble when practicing game and will try to learn from whoever i can, however i can.
I will not expect lays or even flirty intimacy with girls from the get go. I realize that those things have to be earned by using the right frames, being well calibrated socially and with very, very good fundamentals ( you're essentially selling yourself to the opposite gender on a sexual market, getting your fundamentals right is table stakes ! )
i recently realized that i know very little about women, mostly in part to the culture that does not encourage close interaction and socialization between opposite genders. i have no shame in admitting that i might be socially behind in some ways( like when interacting with stranger girls in a flirty, playful way etc even though i am quite good in professional interactions with high tier faculty in academia and c-level executives in the industry, regardless of their gender, but i am not looking to game them lol )
therefore i am open to learning seduction from the core basics.
haha ! i actually understand that
it's .. alot, but in a good way !
i'd love that ebook !
would appreciate if you can link me to it