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Beginner question: does getting results with women come down primarily to a guy's looks?

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venom_snake

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I'm a first time poster on these new forums but a longtime reader of Girlschase. I'm not sure what the consensus is now regarding the importance (or not) of looks. I know that Chase has a very well known and old article saying that looks aren't important and that dominance is the important factor. But recently, there have been some other articles like these

which are talking about how crucial approach invitations are, and how a woman's interest in you is determined before your opener has even been delivered. I am at the point now where I can make good openers but the women just walk away and try to leave as soon as possible after the opener. Should I just chalk this down to the mindset of "I just don't have the right looks for that girl; I just need to meet more"? When my wing was approaching with me, the same girls that I approached stood still and listened to his opener, while they walked away from me. So it seems to me that the above articles espousing the importance of approach invitations are correct. But can some advanced and more knowledgeable guys weigh in please? Thanks very much.
 

ElderPrice

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Welcome to the boards!

No, you're not getting those results because you're not a handsome model. You're probably doing something weird, but would need far more details to diagnose.

The idea of approach invitations is simply, if you can learn how to spot them, you can more or less see which girls are more likely to be receptive. This way you don't have to approach every girl in the area to find the ones that are interested in you. So for example, if you're in a store or something, and assuming every girl that comes through has an opportunity to see you, then all else being equal, you'll have more luck with the girls that stop and browse in your area vs. the ones that quickly walk past.
 

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The focus of these boards is on men improving themselves (and that can certainly include looks maxxing) not whining about not being able to sleep with women because they weren’t born with top looks.

All threads discussing if looks, money or status are what get guys laid, or arguing that certain races have an advantage, will be locked.
 
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