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I noticed how Chase says always keep a field journal about each time you go out and write about what you accomplished, how you accomplished it, what you could have done better, etc.
I was a skeptic to the idea at first, as I am sure some of you are now. I felt like a 12 year old girl writing in a diary haha. But then I learned that keeping a journal can be an extremely powerful tool that supplements your effort. For example, when you encounter a rejection, and you write it down, it may become more clear as to why it happened. Or when you have a success you can see why and you may be able to use that same technique again.
I also found it helpful to write down my past relationships/pickups. I wrote down the girls I had slept with before learning any of the techniques on Girls Chase or before I could even consider myself in "the game." I slept with all of those girls on the first date; and I wanted to know why I could do it with those girls, but not with others. Writing down simple things like where we were and what happened allowed me to connect the dots. I was able to notice the patterns in things like social proof, minimal effort, and quick escalation. It was reassuring to know that before I even knew anything about getting girls, I was already applying things that Chase had addressed on his site. When I started noticing patterns during my failure or success, I was able to apply what I was doing right more often because I found out through my journal what it was that I was doing right.
So my tip for guys just starting out: WRITE IT DOWN.
Dont write down only what you are doing now, but also what you have done in the past.
However, keeping a journal should not just be a play-by-play on your night. It will be a much bigger help to you if it is more of an in-depth analysis of your night. I like to think of it as the "John Madden" of why I did or didnt get my girl(s). Hope this helps and that you can learn from keeping a journal like I did!
-Monsterslimjim
**and I assume that this site is 99.9% men, so I would hope that everyone understands why I call it John Madden in terms of analyzation haha
I was a skeptic to the idea at first, as I am sure some of you are now. I felt like a 12 year old girl writing in a diary haha. But then I learned that keeping a journal can be an extremely powerful tool that supplements your effort. For example, when you encounter a rejection, and you write it down, it may become more clear as to why it happened. Or when you have a success you can see why and you may be able to use that same technique again.
I also found it helpful to write down my past relationships/pickups. I wrote down the girls I had slept with before learning any of the techniques on Girls Chase or before I could even consider myself in "the game." I slept with all of those girls on the first date; and I wanted to know why I could do it with those girls, but not with others. Writing down simple things like where we were and what happened allowed me to connect the dots. I was able to notice the patterns in things like social proof, minimal effort, and quick escalation. It was reassuring to know that before I even knew anything about getting girls, I was already applying things that Chase had addressed on his site. When I started noticing patterns during my failure or success, I was able to apply what I was doing right more often because I found out through my journal what it was that I was doing right.
So my tip for guys just starting out: WRITE IT DOWN.
Dont write down only what you are doing now, but also what you have done in the past.
However, keeping a journal should not just be a play-by-play on your night. It will be a much bigger help to you if it is more of an in-depth analysis of your night. I like to think of it as the "John Madden" of why I did or didnt get my girl(s). Hope this helps and that you can learn from keeping a journal like I did!
-Monsterslimjim
**and I assume that this site is 99.9% men, so I would hope that everyone understands why I call it John Madden in terms of analyzation haha
