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Walking past the library after a night out mostly by myself I strike up a conversation with a little bright eyed brunette in a skirt walking in front of me with an indirect opener. She seems pretty horny so before I even get her name I ask if she wanted to make out, so we started making out. I say we should go back to my place and she says she's down right as her brother pulls up in a car. She offers me a ride home and I agree, then realize I should have told her to tell him to keep driving and have her walk home with me. But too late for that. As it turns out we live across the street from one another (a few blocks down from the library) and she's like more than ten years older than me and a music teacher. Unfortunately we didn't sleep together since I couldn't figure out what to do besides get her number since her brother was there and I was by myself in the back seat, with her in the front. So I doubt anything in the future will happen (reinforced by her text "I think u r a lil young for me, Good kisser though" "Very fun and spontaneous").
Recently being blatant like that has worked a lot better for me than being smooth and mysterious. True, I get girls swooning over me and approaching me thanks to Chase's consistently fantastic advise, but I still struggle to close with anyone simply because of inexperience and legitimate regional scarcity (though I'm trying to fix both). But with my ever tightening fundamentals the blatant route seems to be more and more a legitimate "strategy". I've flat out asked a few girls if they want to make out this week and every time they've agreed. Though, admittedly, it has yet to lead to sex, as it takes away all the mystery/other circumstances. But if you're in a slightly irritated and impatient mood like I was and just want some immediate indiscriminate intimacy, it's seems to work okay.
Recently being blatant like that has worked a lot better for me than being smooth and mysterious. True, I get girls swooning over me and approaching me thanks to Chase's consistently fantastic advise, but I still struggle to close with anyone simply because of inexperience and legitimate regional scarcity (though I'm trying to fix both). But with my ever tightening fundamentals the blatant route seems to be more and more a legitimate "strategy". I've flat out asked a few girls if they want to make out this week and every time they've agreed. Though, admittedly, it has yet to lead to sex, as it takes away all the mystery/other circumstances. But if you're in a slightly irritated and impatient mood like I was and just want some immediate indiscriminate intimacy, it's seems to work okay.