Hi All,
This will be my 2nd post on the forums so please don't hesitate to critique it vigorously
I went clubbing last night with a friend and ended up on a table with some girls from my very wide social circle (or in other words known entities from university). The interesting part of this report is that I literally got hit on hard. One of the girls was chasing me all night around the bar, making comments trying to make conversation... In short she was leading the whole process. It was quite weird I've never experienced this in such a degree before. The 'issue' was that I don't like her all that much and I've heard that she is going through some emotional meltdown because of a breakup with her boyfriend a month ago ..
I really wanted to do damage control here and not get involved. However as the night went on, with drink count increasing, compliance growing from her (wasn't even intentional on my end) and several other straight forward comments such as "why don't you take a girl home?" "why are you talking to guys and not hitting on girls?" things sort of escalated and my brain shifted to "oh well why not?". Dirty dancing etc and then suddenly she just said "lets go home and have a drink" ... Quite frankly I was shocked
) Went into the taxi, started going to her place and she started worrying something about her room mate how she'll kill her .. Then she shot a random question with a very pissed off tone "why didn't you invite me to your place?!" and at this point my alarm bells started going off a bit as there was a nutter in that taxi and it wasn't the driver.
We got to her apartment, went to the living room she opened a bottle of wine and we started talking. This is where my alarm bells started really going off - she started asking me very personal questions regarding why I broke up with my ex (which was a long term 4.5 years thing..), then started asking me what is the deal between me and this other girl at university and wouldn't let it be.. She seemed super nervous and confused - I could swear her hands were shaking. She then escalated to talking about her own Ex and why they broke up with a very sad face... You can imagine how NOT turning on this is so I tried to cheer up the mood a bit etc got her to sit next to me.. She then went into "omg ur such a nice guy" talk. I excused myself and went to her bathroom (no intentions here, that alcohol had to come out somehow) and it was quite funny as I could hear her running a few times in front of the door doing something ?! for a moment I thought she'd be naked when I get out or something .. Got back, sat down convo continued in this very weird way and then suddenly she said I am going to bed. So this is where my sobering brain took the decision to let this one go and go home. So I literally said okay and called myself a cab - it was slightly awkward, but compared to the rest of the night it was like a James Bond move
Wasn't sure whether to call this a Fuck up report or a learning one as to be honest I didn't really put any effort into this at all and I'm actually glad I didn't sleep with her right now. Moreover, it was a very interesting experience to see things from 'the other side' of seduction.
Anyhow, just wanted to check what you guys think on this one? Has this happened to you ? And I know this is a subjective question, but do you reckon I did the better thing in the long run by NOT sleeping with her?
P.S. I also wrote a fuck up report on the beginners section, but never got any responses. Questions raised there are a bit outdated, but would love if someone could have a look and throw in some general feedback
viewtopic.php?f=2&t=5147
This will be my 2nd post on the forums so please don't hesitate to critique it vigorously
I went clubbing last night with a friend and ended up on a table with some girls from my very wide social circle (or in other words known entities from university). The interesting part of this report is that I literally got hit on hard. One of the girls was chasing me all night around the bar, making comments trying to make conversation... In short she was leading the whole process. It was quite weird I've never experienced this in such a degree before. The 'issue' was that I don't like her all that much and I've heard that she is going through some emotional meltdown because of a breakup with her boyfriend a month ago ..
I really wanted to do damage control here and not get involved. However as the night went on, with drink count increasing, compliance growing from her (wasn't even intentional on my end) and several other straight forward comments such as "why don't you take a girl home?" "why are you talking to guys and not hitting on girls?" things sort of escalated and my brain shifted to "oh well why not?". Dirty dancing etc and then suddenly she just said "lets go home and have a drink" ... Quite frankly I was shocked
We got to her apartment, went to the living room she opened a bottle of wine and we started talking. This is where my alarm bells started really going off - she started asking me very personal questions regarding why I broke up with my ex (which was a long term 4.5 years thing..), then started asking me what is the deal between me and this other girl at university and wouldn't let it be.. She seemed super nervous and confused - I could swear her hands were shaking. She then escalated to talking about her own Ex and why they broke up with a very sad face... You can imagine how NOT turning on this is so I tried to cheer up the mood a bit etc got her to sit next to me.. She then went into "omg ur such a nice guy" talk. I excused myself and went to her bathroom (no intentions here, that alcohol had to come out somehow) and it was quite funny as I could hear her running a few times in front of the door doing something ?! for a moment I thought she'd be naked when I get out or something .. Got back, sat down convo continued in this very weird way and then suddenly she said I am going to bed. So this is where my sobering brain took the decision to let this one go and go home. So I literally said okay and called myself a cab - it was slightly awkward, but compared to the rest of the night it was like a James Bond move
Wasn't sure whether to call this a Fuck up report or a learning one as to be honest I didn't really put any effort into this at all and I'm actually glad I didn't sleep with her right now. Moreover, it was a very interesting experience to see things from 'the other side' of seduction.
Anyhow, just wanted to check what you guys think on this one? Has this happened to you ? And I know this is a subjective question, but do you reckon I did the better thing in the long run by NOT sleeping with her?
P.S. I also wrote a fuck up report on the beginners section, but never got any responses. Questions raised there are a bit outdated, but would love if someone could have a look and throw in some general feedback
viewtopic.php?f=2&t=5147