Better being drunk ?

[Bigjo]

Hey fellas, I have never touched alcohol and cigarettes in my life before but everytime I drink my friends say that, you become a different person, a very different body language.


Also I have noticed that when I am drunk I usually cuss a lot and my language is pure raw, and girls in the bar eyefuck. Yup I should limit my drinking, it makes me difficult to approach girls. But there is one thing I have noticed is once I am drunk, I can see people being feared of my friends say that too.

Let me share with you a small incident, so last night I was drunk and we went to bar one, my sister had this cute married friend she saw me and did the hand gesture of hello and I honestly did not see it and she was like WTF, how can a guy do this.

Later we went to a club, the bouncer did not allow us cause we seemed like a trouble maker. Somehow we entered the club and I noticed that the table beside us was empty yes people did come and go but I think it was because of me. Last month I kinda got banned from club too.

The married girl I was talking about remember? My sister's friend? Yeah she was keeping her head down and stealing glances from me... Later my sister told me she was scared of you....

Although that friend said bye to me and smiled at me while leaving.

Well what is the purpose of saying this story? After being a nice guy and all that shit, I realised I am different, the alcohol brings out something out of me, although I haven't fought with anyone or harmed anyone yet people are scared of me when drunk..


The asshole side of me is brought out by alchohol. And I wanna explore this dark side of me or maybe make this dark side or drunk me the normal me.

I genuinely wanna know what's happening, on one side its good but other side I am like.... Won't alcohol destroy me... But I fuck love the power I have in the bar and how the ladies who are with bfs steal glances. Isn't fear good from men and women both?

Very curious to hear your thoughts

 

[Don Giovanni]

try tatratea

 

[ulrich]

Well, it seems being drunk gets some good things out of you along with plenty of other nasty things.

What you are experiencing with all those glances is the plus side of reducing your inhibitions: you increase attention towards you and are more attentive to the present.
The violent part, though, it’s going to get you in trouble eventually.

You definitely don’t want to get used to drink just to feel powerful or free, that’s a recipe for addiction and disaster.

It seems you have some bottled anger, perhaps some martial arts training or acting could give you a good chance to release it in a cathartic way.
If you want to be a successful seducer and skilled socializer, you will need to temper that rawness so it can be used in a socially smart way.

 

[POB]

Alcohol is alcohol.
Like building muscles is building muscles, getting money is getting money, and so on.
It's not the substance or the action per se that is good or bad.
It's how you use it, and what you wanna get out of it.

There are always 2 options when it comes to booze:
1) you can use it as a crutch, usually like a quick fix to a deeper problem you are avoiding to address properly;
2) you can use it as an enhancer to something you are already developing, and that's gonna help you break barriers;

As long as you don't realize what's holding you back, getting drunk is just an excuse to not fix your real problem.
Makes sense?