Hey what’s up Guys?!
I just had an experience last Friday night that I would really appreciate some feedback on, from anyone who can help. Thanks!!
So I went out with a good friend of mine last Friday and his girl and one of her friends who just got out of a relationship a few months ago. My buddy was kinda setting me up with her. Anyway, I always have trouble creating and building attraction with girls. So we went out for the night in Hollywood and I kinda got to know her. She seemed to be showing some interest throughout the night. At the end of the night we all went back to the hotel room that the girls got for the night and we stayed with them for the night. The girl I was with let me sleep in bed with her but nothing happened. I asked her if I can snuggle with her and she said yeah. So I spooned with her under the covers and kinda rubbed/felt her body a little. I wasn’t groping her in anyway though. Anyway, we fell asleep and the next morning when my buddy and I were leaving I asked her for her number, and she said… “yeah, I guess”. So I took that as a mild rejection. So I replied with… “or not, it’s cool.” At which point, everyone laughed and so did she. And I left it at that and we left. So, I don’t know what went wrong. I know I could’ve spent more time with her throughout the night and flirted more with her to build attraction and make her feel more comfortable with me. However, it seemed like she was showing some interest anyway, and I wasn’t expecting her to hesitate when I asked her for her number the next morning. Any feedback would be very helpful and appreciated to help me understand what I did wrong? Or, why she seemed to change her mind the next morning? Or, if she was not interested at all and was just being cool/nice and I just misread her completely?
Thanks!!
I just had an experience last Friday night that I would really appreciate some feedback on, from anyone who can help. Thanks!!
So I went out with a good friend of mine last Friday and his girl and one of her friends who just got out of a relationship a few months ago. My buddy was kinda setting me up with her. Anyway, I always have trouble creating and building attraction with girls. So we went out for the night in Hollywood and I kinda got to know her. She seemed to be showing some interest throughout the night. At the end of the night we all went back to the hotel room that the girls got for the night and we stayed with them for the night. The girl I was with let me sleep in bed with her but nothing happened. I asked her if I can snuggle with her and she said yeah. So I spooned with her under the covers and kinda rubbed/felt her body a little. I wasn’t groping her in anyway though. Anyway, we fell asleep and the next morning when my buddy and I were leaving I asked her for her number, and she said… “yeah, I guess”. So I took that as a mild rejection. So I replied with… “or not, it’s cool.” At which point, everyone laughed and so did she. And I left it at that and we left. So, I don’t know what went wrong. I know I could’ve spent more time with her throughout the night and flirted more with her to build attraction and make her feel more comfortable with me. However, it seemed like she was showing some interest anyway, and I wasn’t expecting her to hesitate when I asked her for her number the next morning. Any feedback would be very helpful and appreciated to help me understand what I did wrong? Or, why she seemed to change her mind the next morning? Or, if she was not interested at all and was just being cool/nice and I just misread her completely?
Thanks!!