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OK I'd say this is the main issue right here. You did not lead the conversation and set the frame, but instead let her talk about go-nowhere topics without your input.

Well you right,when i was in a bar my motivation was- "Be friendly and approach and we`ll see what hapen"
When we leave the bar it was she who was talking the most,and if she do all the work why should i disrupt her?
I hoped somehow it wil work out.
Actually,despite i have a good,solid communication with girls,i feel that something is missing.I feel that girls like me,respect me aproaching them,but theres no spark.

That means you have to lead the conversation toward sex from the very beginning. For me, in very simple terms, this usually follows a path like the following (though in practice it's usually a lot of two steps forward and one back):

1. Basic get-to-know-you conversation: "what do you do for work" "what do you do for fun" etc
2. Dig deeper "what do you want to be?", "what have you always wanted to do?", "what kind of girl are you really?"
3. Talk about and share stories related adventure, freedom, spontaneity, inhibition vs authenticity etc
4. Introduce topic of sex, good vs bad sex, hottest sexual experiences, sexual fantasies, etc
5. Pull

Haha seems like i stuck on # 2. Now i remembered, it was she who asked those questions.
She tried to understand my motivation and what kind of guy i am.
I have my own algorythm for interactions
1. pre-open and make sure girl noticed you
2.open her with some basic questions\cold read\statement
3.Watch for reaction if everything is good->Basic get-to-know-you conversation
4. Testing her interest level-asking her namesee if she start asking question
5. little chit-chat about enviorment or something relevant
6.Trying to figure out her logistics-if good triyng to move her
7.Ask for contacts-Compliment+we should hang out sometime
Now i think i should add some steps:

2. Dig deeper "what do you want to be?", "what have you always wanted to do?", "what kind of girl are you really?"
3. Talk about and share stories related adventure, freedom, spontaneity, inhibition vs authenticity etc

Well anyaway when you in the moment you dont have a time to think about frames,tactics and things like that.All you have is your previous experience.
What do you think about my texting?