Blowouts to approach ratio?

[domran321]

What's your blowout to approach ratio?
I feel like mine is way too bad, I have 1 real conversation with about only 10% the girls I approach

 

[Bill]

try imagining the energy you would feel hugging someone and think of something funny so you enter with a genuine smile and eye contact. If you notice any sense of discomfort on her part quickly say a statement of empathy or false time constraint. And speak louder, slower, and with a down-tone.

 

[domran321]

try imagining the energy you would feel hugging someone and think of something funny so you enter with a genuine smile and eye contact. If you notice any sense of discomfort on her part quickly say a statement of empathy or false time constraint. And speak louder, slower, and with a down-tone.

What's your ratio?

 

[Bill]

What's your ratio?

I don’t really get “blow outs” at the moment of approach unless she is super busy. Usually they’ll talk to me for at least a few seconds even if rejecting me right away.

 

[domran321]

I don’t really get “blow outs” at the moment of approach unless she is super busy. Usually they’ll talk to me for at least a few seconds even if rejecting me right away.

Well, if it's not even a 1 minute chat, in my eyes it's just a polite blowout.
Can you give an approximate ratio?

 

[nikolas]

try imagining the energy you would feel hugging someone and think of something funny so you enter with a genuine smile and eye contact. If you notice any sense of discomfort on her part quickly say a statement of empathy or false time constraint. And speak louder, slower, and with a down-tone.

Seconded for louder, slower and calm down-tone.

 

[domran321]

Seconded for louder, slower and calm down-tone.

Ok thank you but can you let us know your ratio of approaches vs 1min+ conversations?