Backtrack to one eyed dog: we saw some nice looking girls. I began talking to the girl at the bar. She told me she was Australian. She prolly thought I was just being friendly seeing how she easily left while we were talking and I was just about to move her.
Next girls were on the dance floor. Honestly I didn't have any process so it was kind of hard to know what to do at each point.
Next I saw this cute girl about to go outside and began talking to her. She said she was a pharmacist. Sadly she was a smoker even with such nice lips. Interestingly as she was about to move with me, the guard noticed my drink and screamed at me to leave it inside. That shook her up a little and she was bothered about the rain. I had to decide if I wanted to go talk with her outside in the rain with her smoking or drink inside and approach more girls. It was a snap decision so as I looked outside through the entrance door, to see if she was at least hooked enough to wonder where I was, I saw her hide under her coat and go out in the rain..obviously to smoke but not looking back at me. So I couldn't afford to chase there. Too much investment and it's more her call than mine cuz I'm not smoking and it's not a comfort zone for me. Stay inside!
I strolled to the other part of the bar. There are groups all over the place looking fun and all. I reasoned how one could become a part of such a group without being weird. Then got to the pool table. It was easy from there. I just stood where I was and this cute big girl approached and started talking to me. Her name: Holly.
We hit it off really well and she being rather out going had a sense of friendliness and sexiness about her as she kept whispering and looking at me like we were pals etc. I instantly warm up to her and she's telling about her life etc till this guy interrupts us and is her bf.
Thinking now I should have blocked him off as though he didn't have a right to barge in. It just got awkward from there. I could have remained solid but hey, we were to have a game together. However thinking now, that could have been an opportunity to strike a win and strong edginess and non needy form about myself. I made my own decision to go there and to play and to have a good time there. It became weird. I should have gotten her number at a very high point.
She shrunk back when I seemed unstable. I remember thinking she was putting up a wall. As I thought that, I replied that thought with "she may be avoiding intimacy". I let her relax by not chasing and remaining calm. Then I did some other cool shots. She came to tell how she plays rubbish sometimes. Convo was good. She controlled most of it but I had to take it on board. She reminds me of a good female friend of mine. However she didn't give her number. So we couldn't chill afterwards.
At liquid, I spoke to this girl at the bar, she was okay to talk and asked if I'm at uni, I challenged her with if I looked like a student, she got defensive. »»Oops! Too much to break rapport. Think like this, that holly girl made me feel like she was like me with the way she spoke, I should be able to create the same similar emotion in girls and other people generally. Let them relax around me with some underlying challenges.««
Next girl was also at the bar, rather slim and tall. I spoke with her, she bust balls by saying she was taller, "obviously an inexperienced girl", I heard myself think. so I didn't care much but still asked to hang out later. I should have either looked at her skeptically if she said that or maybe gone quiet since she was already where I was...but I kept speaking, hence chasing.! I even asked for her number.
»»Guess what? Have your number collected early on so that you move on to other topics and avoid making it seem like the convo was getting to a close««
The last approach looked at me in a nasty way and walked looked away. I simply shrugged.
Was a good outing. Didn't get numbers. Made a new friend from Arabia though. We'll be connecting once they come back from holidays there.
Skin_man
Next girls were on the dance floor. Honestly I didn't have any process so it was kind of hard to know what to do at each point.
Next I saw this cute girl about to go outside and began talking to her. She said she was a pharmacist. Sadly she was a smoker even with such nice lips. Interestingly as she was about to move with me, the guard noticed my drink and screamed at me to leave it inside. That shook her up a little and she was bothered about the rain. I had to decide if I wanted to go talk with her outside in the rain with her smoking or drink inside and approach more girls. It was a snap decision so as I looked outside through the entrance door, to see if she was at least hooked enough to wonder where I was, I saw her hide under her coat and go out in the rain..obviously to smoke but not looking back at me. So I couldn't afford to chase there. Too much investment and it's more her call than mine cuz I'm not smoking and it's not a comfort zone for me. Stay inside!
I strolled to the other part of the bar. There are groups all over the place looking fun and all. I reasoned how one could become a part of such a group without being weird. Then got to the pool table. It was easy from there. I just stood where I was and this cute big girl approached and started talking to me. Her name: Holly.
We hit it off really well and she being rather out going had a sense of friendliness and sexiness about her as she kept whispering and looking at me like we were pals etc. I instantly warm up to her and she's telling about her life etc till this guy interrupts us and is her bf.
Thinking now I should have blocked him off as though he didn't have a right to barge in. It just got awkward from there. I could have remained solid but hey, we were to have a game together. However thinking now, that could have been an opportunity to strike a win and strong edginess and non needy form about myself. I made my own decision to go there and to play and to have a good time there. It became weird. I should have gotten her number at a very high point.
She shrunk back when I seemed unstable. I remember thinking she was putting up a wall. As I thought that, I replied that thought with "she may be avoiding intimacy". I let her relax by not chasing and remaining calm. Then I did some other cool shots. She came to tell how she plays rubbish sometimes. Convo was good. She controlled most of it but I had to take it on board. She reminds me of a good female friend of mine. However she didn't give her number. So we couldn't chill afterwards.
At liquid, I spoke to this girl at the bar, she was okay to talk and asked if I'm at uni, I challenged her with if I looked like a student, she got defensive. »»Oops! Too much to break rapport. Think like this, that holly girl made me feel like she was like me with the way she spoke, I should be able to create the same similar emotion in girls and other people generally. Let them relax around me with some underlying challenges.««
Next girl was also at the bar, rather slim and tall. I spoke with her, she bust balls by saying she was taller, "obviously an inexperienced girl", I heard myself think. so I didn't care much but still asked to hang out later. I should have either looked at her skeptically if she said that or maybe gone quiet since she was already where I was...but I kept speaking, hence chasing.! I even asked for her number.
»»Guess what? Have your number collected early on so that you move on to other topics and avoid making it seem like the convo was getting to a close««
The last approach looked at me in a nasty way and walked looked away. I simply shrugged.
Was a good outing. Didn't get numbers. Made a new friend from Arabia though. We'll be connecting once they come back from holidays there.
Skin_man
