FR boyfriend bin? "but i dont know you"

[stratvm]

executive summary:
- the second "but i dont know you" case.
- money&time thrown out of the window.
- boyfriendzoned = got into oblivion
- make sure you pay professional companion if you can afford it while learning the game
- make sure you take her to places where there is no chance to meet with friends
- and believe chase: organize cheap dates AND go dutch (partially i did).

short story (multiple locations):

ENCOUNTER 1
- previously met (social circle), hot night together, gave her number without asking, i didnt push for a close (*** GUYS ALWAYS PUSH FOR A CLOSE THE SAME NIGHT YOU MEET HER. ITS THE ONLY WAY.)

ENCOUNTER 2
- deep dive: check
- moving around: check (4 different locations in 3 hours)
- probably showed too much value by admitting where my next flat will be. *** GUYS DO NOT SAY ANYTHING ABOUT YOURSELF.
- dirty talk: i tried a few times, sometimes it was ok, sometimes: "i dont bite to what you are saying"
- chase framing: some lame beginner version check
- physical escalation: massive CHECK
- kiss on the cheek by her during transition between scenes = biggest failure a man can get.
- possible problem: met 2 friends (1 hers 1 mine) in 2 locations >>> she got stressed out.
- reaction during encounter (after shooting the "lets be friends card"): nooo, lets forget this "best friend" stuff, im attracted to you
- persistence: check
- got a few times from her: "you are smooth", "you know the game" FFS.
- reason for not coming to my place: "but i dont know you" - worst objection you can get. it equals: "you are crap stratvm."
- said goodbye in a good mood but i felt humiliated.

i felt it got really hot at one point maybe i should have tried to take her home then but i think im boyfriend zoned. not a place you want to be. my next date is with a high class escort next week. at least i can score with her. till then, theoretical preparation.

THINGS TO DO:
- friendzone her, get easy females through her contacts
- conditioning myself to force same night lays. if not happening >>> automatic friendzoning.

 

[A Life Loquacious]

Re: FR - boyfriend bin? "but i dont know you"

I've had them refuse to come home with me/take me to theirs - same thing; "I don't know you". Same chick was trying to get me into a toilet cubicle with her at the club earlier but I didn't go for it because I'm not really into the whole semi-public sex thing. I've never found the whole sex in a busy bathroom where bouncers peek over the top of the cubicles every five minutes or half the club is waiting for you to finish so they can get in there and deficate/do drugs to be particularly arousing. Oh well, win some lose some I guess.

 

[Ross]

Re: FR - boyfriend bin? "but i dont know you"

- reason for not coming to my place: "but i dont know you" - worst objection you can get. it equals: "you are crap stratvm."

The worst thing she can do is just get up and leave. Objections are tests, and they can be addressed and used to catapult her attraction for you.

A nice reaction would be, "Let's get to know each other." The only defeat is her leaving for good.

 

[stratvm]

Re: FR - boyfriend bin? "but i dont know you"

- reason for not coming to my place: "but i dont know you" - worst objection you can get. it equals: "you are crap stratvm."

The worst thing she can do is just get up and leave. Objections are tests, and they can be addressed and used to catapult her attraction for you.

A nice reaction would be, "Let's get to know each other." The only defeat is her leaving for good.

this is a good idea will try next time though my queue is completely empty now. i addressed this "but i dont know you" nonsense somehow but i read this right before meeting (How to Get Laid Every Time, Part I) + she REALLY got stressed out when we met our friends so i knew it was a failure anyway:

"If a girl objects to having sex with you because “she doesn’t even know you”, it’s really not a good idea to freeze her out. It’s a legitimate concern on her part… you screwed up on the date.
This objection translates to: you didn’t get to know her well enough, and you didn’t present yourself as a three dimensional human being with any depth whatsoever.
Of course filling in the canvas of your life for her can be unnecessary if you set a strong sexual frame and have enough of a sexual vibe with her… but in general, it’s a good idea to make a girl feel like she knows you a little bit and can trust you."