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brando15

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Yesterday I went to a bar with a roommate and some of his friends. They planned on going to a baseball game afterwards but I just wasn't vibing with these people whatsoever. So I decide to bounce especially considering that I didn't have a ticket to the game and didn't want to waste money. I'm on summer break from college and it's my last one before I graduate and go on to start a career. As such, I've got enough cash to pay the bills and don't want to work just yet. So I'm lounging around for the summer and have to nit pick with my money.

So I tell my roommate that I'm going to leave and he flips the fuck out. Makes ZERO sense to me that he would act this way by the mere fact that I don't want to go sit with his friends who I find boring. Even he wasn't talking much to me while we were at the bar. I figure if he's going to focus on getting wasted then I'm going to leave and focus my efforts on learning the art of seduction. He gets all mad that I'm going to leave and hops in line with one of his friends and turns his back to me. So I say "Alright ignore me. Have fun" and walk away. Then he sends me a text message telling me that I'm cheap for not buying a ticket and blah blah blah. I'm not going to let his childish outbursts ruin my night so I brush it off and head home for a power nap.

After my nap I get up, get dressed and head to the bars to start meeting new women. I'm tired of not having women in my life and am not going to let people drag me down anymore. I've tried to invite them out but they either won't come or they won't try if they do come out. Bottom line is that NONE of my friends want to work on this as much or as badly as I do. I'm pissed off as fuck about my current life situation and am going to fix it. If people are going to waste my time or get in my way then fuck them. May sound harsh but what I was previously doing IS NOT working for me.
 

Aspirant

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Good for you for not sinking to your friend's level on that. From what i could tell of that situation it seems like your friend just wants to spend time with you so maybe review how much you've been investing in him compared to him investing to you. If it's close to 50/50 i'd analyze pros and cons of keeping him as a friend and drop him if he doesn't benefit your life. I did this recently with a couple people.

Hope I helped! -Aspirant
 
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