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Hi guys!
I've been away for a while, things have been happening during that time. I found myself a woman, I was in a pretty long relationship +3.5 years. At the beginning, the chick was like in a picture, literally on call. After some time I started to grow a little bit, her interest was waning, there was a lack of sex, her hypergamy was acting up. Two weeks ago she left me and it was cool, I deserved it because I behaved and looked tragic. I'm sure she didn't cheat on me in the sense of SeX, but maybe she was texting with someone, because now I think she's dating someone. I'm telling you right now, I don't want to go back to her, she's not LTR material, I don't even think about it. We still live together because I'm a student and I won't have a paycheck until September to move out from her. How do you start getting back into the game? I've started taking care of myself again, I'm working out at the gym, the topic is fresh and it hurts my ass a little that she's already talking to someone (maybe she's meeting someone, I'm trying not to analyze it).
Should I give up on meeting women and close my stuff (work, studies, physique building) or should I slowly hit it off and try to build relationships with other women? I feel a little uncomfortable seeing how I look. Alternatively, I may try to fuck her to boost my ego, but again, she sees me every day and my progress is not that visible (and there is some). I'm telling you right now, I don't care about a relationship with her. I seem to be a little bit fucked off, like 80% of the time, but at night it still gets to me sometimes.
I'm thinking of hitting up her friend who she hasn't heard from in a year and a half. She has always turned me on, do you guys think it's a good idea to reach out to her or should I focus on myself?
I've been away for a while, things have been happening during that time. I found myself a woman, I was in a pretty long relationship +3.5 years. At the beginning, the chick was like in a picture, literally on call. After some time I started to grow a little bit, her interest was waning, there was a lack of sex, her hypergamy was acting up. Two weeks ago she left me and it was cool, I deserved it because I behaved and looked tragic. I'm sure she didn't cheat on me in the sense of SeX, but maybe she was texting with someone, because now I think she's dating someone. I'm telling you right now, I don't want to go back to her, she's not LTR material, I don't even think about it. We still live together because I'm a student and I won't have a paycheck until September to move out from her. How do you start getting back into the game? I've started taking care of myself again, I'm working out at the gym, the topic is fresh and it hurts my ass a little that she's already talking to someone (maybe she's meeting someone, I'm trying not to analyze it).
Should I give up on meeting women and close my stuff (work, studies, physique building) or should I slowly hit it off and try to build relationships with other women? I feel a little uncomfortable seeing how I look. Alternatively, I may try to fuck her to boost my ego, but again, she sees me every day and my progress is not that visible (and there is some). I'm telling you right now, I don't care about a relationship with her. I seem to be a little bit fucked off, like 80% of the time, but at night it still gets to me sometimes.
I'm thinking of hitting up her friend who she hasn't heard from in a year and a half. She has always turned me on, do you guys think it's a good idea to reach out to her or should I focus on myself?
