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Gentlemen,
I've passed a sticking point, which was not escalating and being too timid with girls. Today, I pushed the limits of what I thought I was capable of and surpassed my own expectations. On with the story (even though it may not be a very good one...)
After an afternoon of hanging out with some of my friends, I went to a very small party/gathering to have some drinks and some fun. I drank quite a lot, and 4 of the other 5 people there also got pretty damn drunk (the one that didn't drove to the party). We had school canceled for today, which was Monday, and tomorrow, which was Tuesday, due to weather. So at the party we all drank a lot, and we were all screwing around. Eventually I wound up in the bathroom with two girls, one was my good friend's girlfriend who through cake on my face, and the other one was the host. After my friend's girl got out of the bathroom, I walked up to the other girl, slammed her against the wall with my hands behind her face and back, and started passionately making out with her. Pretty soon, I stuck my hand down her black leggings/yoga pants (the best!), and started fingering her. Not too much time passed before I unbuckled my belt, slid my jeans and boxers down, and she started giving me a hand job (no resistance on either part!). We kept at it for a little while, neither of us came (but I know she was close or at least got a lot of pleasure), but we kept getting interrupted by some of the other people there. Eventually, my girl left the bathroom, even though I persisted for her to stay, and went to look for some people.
I talked to some other people there that had just arrived, and after a 15-25 minute break, I got back into the bathroom with my girl, and we started going at it again. Same thing happened, we got interrupted and neither of us came. I had to leave because my ride home was with some of my friends. Before I left and after my friends walked outside, we passionately kissed again, then I said "We make a good team," which she laughed at, continued the make out, and I then left her house.
I'm pretty damn happy that I finally made a move, even if we were both drunk. I didn't bring any condoms (the one fucking time!) because I was positive that I wouldn't be hooking up that night, so I didn't make a move towards sex. I did make a move toward a blow job, but she denied, and I didn't persist too much further. But overall, I'm proud of myself and how "aggressive" I was, and how I finally grew a pair and did something.
I'm not sure how to handle this though. I probably wouldn't consider her for a relationship, but I wouldn't mind hooking up with her again. I don't have her number either, so I can't really contact her. Should I get her number from a friend and try to contact her again and hook up with her again? Or should I just leave it as a drunk hook up? And another question, how would I make it easier for her to give me a blow job or have sex with me if I were to continue the "relationship"? I think I'm struggling to get past some LMR, and I could use some help on how to move further in the interaction.
Sorry that it wasn't a full interaction, but this is the best I can do. Other than a little bit of dancing between us while we were both drunk, I didn't really do much in the interaction. I think my fundamentals may be better, but the alcohol certainly didn't hurt. This whole thing just shows how I've stopped being such a wuss and started being more aggressive. Any advice on how to handle the situation (I know it's really vague), would be very appreciated.
Thanks for any advice, and thanks to everyone on the site and on the boards who have helped me improve myself.
-Pato
I've passed a sticking point, which was not escalating and being too timid with girls. Today, I pushed the limits of what I thought I was capable of and surpassed my own expectations. On with the story (even though it may not be a very good one...)
After an afternoon of hanging out with some of my friends, I went to a very small party/gathering to have some drinks and some fun. I drank quite a lot, and 4 of the other 5 people there also got pretty damn drunk (the one that didn't drove to the party). We had school canceled for today, which was Monday, and tomorrow, which was Tuesday, due to weather. So at the party we all drank a lot, and we were all screwing around. Eventually I wound up in the bathroom with two girls, one was my good friend's girlfriend who through cake on my face, and the other one was the host. After my friend's girl got out of the bathroom, I walked up to the other girl, slammed her against the wall with my hands behind her face and back, and started passionately making out with her. Pretty soon, I stuck my hand down her black leggings/yoga pants (the best!), and started fingering her. Not too much time passed before I unbuckled my belt, slid my jeans and boxers down, and she started giving me a hand job (no resistance on either part!). We kept at it for a little while, neither of us came (but I know she was close or at least got a lot of pleasure), but we kept getting interrupted by some of the other people there. Eventually, my girl left the bathroom, even though I persisted for her to stay, and went to look for some people.
I talked to some other people there that had just arrived, and after a 15-25 minute break, I got back into the bathroom with my girl, and we started going at it again. Same thing happened, we got interrupted and neither of us came. I had to leave because my ride home was with some of my friends. Before I left and after my friends walked outside, we passionately kissed again, then I said "We make a good team," which she laughed at, continued the make out, and I then left her house.
I'm pretty damn happy that I finally made a move, even if we were both drunk. I didn't bring any condoms (the one fucking time!) because I was positive that I wouldn't be hooking up that night, so I didn't make a move towards sex. I did make a move toward a blow job, but she denied, and I didn't persist too much further. But overall, I'm proud of myself and how "aggressive" I was, and how I finally grew a pair and did something.
I'm not sure how to handle this though. I probably wouldn't consider her for a relationship, but I wouldn't mind hooking up with her again. I don't have her number either, so I can't really contact her. Should I get her number from a friend and try to contact her again and hook up with her again? Or should I just leave it as a drunk hook up? And another question, how would I make it easier for her to give me a blow job or have sex with me if I were to continue the "relationship"? I think I'm struggling to get past some LMR, and I could use some help on how to move further in the interaction.
Sorry that it wasn't a full interaction, but this is the best I can do. Other than a little bit of dancing between us while we were both drunk, I didn't really do much in the interaction. I think my fundamentals may be better, but the alcohol certainly didn't hurt. This whole thing just shows how I've stopped being such a wuss and started being more aggressive. Any advice on how to handle the situation (I know it's really vague), would be very appreciated.
Thanks for any advice, and thanks to everyone on the site and on the boards who have helped me improve myself.
-Pato
, but yeah I could always try to meet up with her more privately. I just don't want anyone in my circle or the girl thinking that I'm looking for or am going to get into a relationship with her (or almost any other girl for that matter). There are some hotter girls in the extended circle that I definitely don't want to miss out on, and I actually might've gotten with a girl that I met at another party on Saturday night, but the party got busted by cops and I had to make a run for it.
