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Hey guys,
I've noticed a phenomenon a couple months back about using social pressure to grab more investment from girls at bus stops. Specifically, if it's just you and her at a bus stop. You don't go direct for an opening here since she's going to stick around no matter what (she has to wait for her bus). Instead, investment openers work better. Ask for a look at the phone she is playing with, or something on her hand, and start some mid-rapport here. Of course flirting, banter, whatever. But in the middle of the conversation, just don't carry it anymore. There will be an "awkward silence" that she feels the need to fill, and that forces her to invest and keep the conversation going.
The reason why I made a post here about it, is that awkward silences can normally be a reason for a girl to walk up and leave. And many newbies avoid that since they aren't working with a decent amount of attraction, where she'll stay either way. But in the case of a bus stop, she must stay, and if you have even a decent amount of fundamentals here, she will fill the hole in the conversation, and that investment will make it easier for you to grab a number/go on an instant date.
So, especially for beginners who are having limited success, try this out. Theoretically, you can use this in any situation/place where she cannot leave for a duration of time.
Cheers,
Jake
I've noticed a phenomenon a couple months back about using social pressure to grab more investment from girls at bus stops. Specifically, if it's just you and her at a bus stop. You don't go direct for an opening here since she's going to stick around no matter what (she has to wait for her bus). Instead, investment openers work better. Ask for a look at the phone she is playing with, or something on her hand, and start some mid-rapport here. Of course flirting, banter, whatever. But in the middle of the conversation, just don't carry it anymore. There will be an "awkward silence" that she feels the need to fill, and that forces her to invest and keep the conversation going.
The reason why I made a post here about it, is that awkward silences can normally be a reason for a girl to walk up and leave. And many newbies avoid that since they aren't working with a decent amount of attraction, where she'll stay either way. But in the case of a bus stop, she must stay, and if you have even a decent amount of fundamentals here, she will fill the hole in the conversation, and that investment will make it easier for you to grab a number/go on an instant date.
So, especially for beginners who are having limited success, try this out. Theoretically, you can use this in any situation/place where she cannot leave for a duration of time.
Cheers,
Jake
