Butch's beginning

[Butch]

I've been reading all the forums lately, I have also read other "pick up" websites and forums and no doubt this is the most mature and manly website out there!! The others seem too childish and fake! I have the biggest respect for all the men involved in girls chase and the people on the forums!

So I started my journey in becoming successful with our female species! I love women no doubt about it, they are the most beautiful creatures in our planet! I consider myself a shy person which is the main reason of all my failues with the females!

Today though, I went out with my friend M and my cousin E.
M is a total ladies man! Everywhere we go together women are attracted to him instantly. I've been observing him a lot lately, how he acts, how he speaks, how he postures I mean every detail!!
While hanging out with him I realized that no matter how pretty, gorgeous, beautiful a woman is, she is still human with imperfections and normal and... Shockingly M treats them all the same!! No girl impresses him, no girl is too hot or too ugly, he shows the same warmth and affection to everyone! That I think is something I lack! I'm only "nice" to the pretty girls, but too shy to do anything else, and the unpleasant girls I just ignore completely, almost like discriminating them if it makes any sence!

I have a long journey, but first things first! FUNDAMENTALS!
-style (sexy man)
-posture
-voice
-charisma
-cojones to work for the goals I want to reach!

-Butch

 

[BarryS1]

Butch,

I just started my journey and require work on fundamentals as well. The voice is definitely my most dramatic change from habitually talking fast to get a point across (w/o being shut down). Talking slow and pumping value into each word the last week has given better reception from female store clerks. I get longer looks from ladies when at a checkstand, customer service desk at the gym, and library support station. I have yet to try on the field and will fill in on stories later.

 

[Richard]

For both of you, I suggest you keep tabs on AP (asianpersuasion) because he has truly grown, and his posts prove it. From his start ( I believe him and I started about the same time) he's grown exponentially.

Anyway, for voice, it's best to learn new words, words you don't hear to often. Expand your vocabulary. Work on your tone of voice As Chase has stated, it's not necessarily about what you say, it's how you say it.

Walk slower as well, walk with the thought that you are a sexy man, you a charismatic male! That vibe naturally progresses from thought into unconscious body movement

Now, if you find yourself lacking motivation, here ya go:
https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=2709

 

[BarryS1]

For both of you, I suggest you keep tabs on AP (asianpersuasion) because he has truly grown, and his posts prove it.

Thanks for pointing him out, I saw the stories and will continue to read.

Anyway, for voice, it's best to learn new words, words you don't hear to often. Expand your vocabulary. Work on your tone of voice As Chase has stated, it's not necessarily about what you say, it's how you say it.

I just started a habit of identifying three new words a day and looking up the definition. What types of words do you suggest for seduction? Adjectives and verbs come to mind. Perhaps we can get a tread started on this.

Now, if you find yourself lacking motivation, here ya go: viewtopic.php?f=2&t=2709

Great idea about canceling toxic thoughts with equally powerful positive ones. I have a book "Managing Stress: Principles and Strategies for Health and Well-Being" by Brian Luke Seaward that suggests a similar version called "reframing." If we can stop toxic thoughts at a cognitive level, then our performance will not be affected.