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- Oct 27, 2018
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I've been in the game for several years, but just recently started doing cold approach pickup. During the past week I've been going out and approaching attractive women to get experience, and now I'm taking the time to get some advice from the good men here and fine-tune my approach.
Out of ~25 approaches, I got contact info from 4 girls. 3 of these were complete dead ends with very low investment responses over text. The 4th was good at first, but after asking her out for a drink, she hit me with a barrage of questions and couldn't make a decision (she kept dodging) so I let her go.
As for the responses, I got 2 who ignored me, a few who made excuses to get away "I'm late for x, I have a boyfriend" etc, and several who looked confused as to why I was there. There were a few positive responses, specifically from two of the girls who gave me their number, with both of them saying how surprised they were, that this never happens. Of course, that doesn't matter because you can't fuck a phone number.
Anyway, I'm trying to calibrate my approach. My personality is laid-back and relaxed, and I don't ever chase, so approaching girls and showing interest is out of character for me. On the flipside, when I'm normally aloof I think they get confused as to why I'm there. Your insight and advice is appreciated. Thanks.
Out of ~25 approaches, I got contact info from 4 girls. 3 of these were complete dead ends with very low investment responses over text. The 4th was good at first, but after asking her out for a drink, she hit me with a barrage of questions and couldn't make a decision (she kept dodging) so I let her go.
As for the responses, I got 2 who ignored me, a few who made excuses to get away "I'm late for x, I have a boyfriend" etc, and several who looked confused as to why I was there. There were a few positive responses, specifically from two of the girls who gave me their number, with both of them saying how surprised they were, that this never happens. Of course, that doesn't matter because you can't fuck a phone number.
Anyway, I'm trying to calibrate my approach. My personality is laid-back and relaxed, and I don't ever chase, so approaching girls and showing interest is out of character for me. On the flipside, when I'm normally aloof I think they get confused as to why I'm there. Your insight and advice is appreciated. Thanks.
