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Time for another, must admit it feels good to challenge one's self and go out.
So this happened Last night ( Wednesday night). I had decided that in order for me to get to any sort of mastery, it will take time, so I made the plan to go out for an hour and a half. Our school has a weekly beer pong thing that goes on, so I just went there. I am an introvert with extrovert tendencies, so going out was not too bad. I arrive at the place interact with my good friend, and we post up, and just chat, nothing super interesting, just same old same old. Anyway, the night persists, and a girl who was in my freshman orientation group arrives: we will call her California girl.
She arrives with her friend and finds me and my buddy. We all post up and just chit chat. Throughout the interaction, she is talking about how she does not want a relationship, wants to just date guys and have fun ( she had previously just had a really bad breakup). My buddy ( in a relationship) and I start joking with her and teasing her about how she should just start approaching men b/c we are so easy to win over. Now during this whole conversation, I try and say as little as possible b/c I am not much of a talk talk talk person, so I would enter the conversation, then turn away to analyze the party, then turn back. It was during this process that I noticed that everytime we looked at each other, especially when I did not say anything, she would be staring at my lips. Well, I thought, might as well give it a shot. So we continue our little conversation, I tell my friend I am gonna leave soon and he announces it. California girl and her friend had to go get more beer, but she made a point to say that they would be back b4 I left. They leave, and then my buddy leaves, so I just post up, chill, and watch the party goers ( few interactions with them here and there). I see California girl coming back, she stops and talks to some guy. I watch her, and sure enough,she comes and finds me.
Not wanting to waste time, I ask her when she is free. She responds that she is pretty free all the time, and that this term is not too busy for her. I ask her if she is free friday to which she says no cuz she has a party ( actually knew this already,but had forgotten), I then just ask her for her number,and tell her that we should hang out sometime. I get her number, and then leave.
I send her a text but made a stupid mistake:
Spelled her name wrong.
Me: Hey Kalifonia girl ( to signify spelling name wrong, I know how to spell California, lol), This is R4L
No response to this one, so today I sent her a text in the afternoon
Me: Hey California girl ( spelled right), it was nice chatting w/ you last night! Let me know when you're free, we should grab some grub sometime.
Her: Yeah for sure, will do!
And scene. Thoughts, suggestions, etc. Thanks
R4L
So this happened Last night ( Wednesday night). I had decided that in order for me to get to any sort of mastery, it will take time, so I made the plan to go out for an hour and a half. Our school has a weekly beer pong thing that goes on, so I just went there. I am an introvert with extrovert tendencies, so going out was not too bad. I arrive at the place interact with my good friend, and we post up, and just chat, nothing super interesting, just same old same old. Anyway, the night persists, and a girl who was in my freshman orientation group arrives: we will call her California girl.
She arrives with her friend and finds me and my buddy. We all post up and just chit chat. Throughout the interaction, she is talking about how she does not want a relationship, wants to just date guys and have fun ( she had previously just had a really bad breakup). My buddy ( in a relationship) and I start joking with her and teasing her about how she should just start approaching men b/c we are so easy to win over. Now during this whole conversation, I try and say as little as possible b/c I am not much of a talk talk talk person, so I would enter the conversation, then turn away to analyze the party, then turn back. It was during this process that I noticed that everytime we looked at each other, especially when I did not say anything, she would be staring at my lips. Well, I thought, might as well give it a shot. So we continue our little conversation, I tell my friend I am gonna leave soon and he announces it. California girl and her friend had to go get more beer, but she made a point to say that they would be back b4 I left. They leave, and then my buddy leaves, so I just post up, chill, and watch the party goers ( few interactions with them here and there). I see California girl coming back, she stops and talks to some guy. I watch her, and sure enough,she comes and finds me.
Not wanting to waste time, I ask her when she is free. She responds that she is pretty free all the time, and that this term is not too busy for her. I ask her if she is free friday to which she says no cuz she has a party ( actually knew this already,but had forgotten), I then just ask her for her number,and tell her that we should hang out sometime. I get her number, and then leave.
I send her a text but made a stupid mistake:
Spelled her name wrong.
Me: Hey Kalifonia girl ( to signify spelling name wrong, I know how to spell California, lol), This is R4L
No response to this one, so today I sent her a text in the afternoon
Me: Hey California girl ( spelled right), it was nice chatting w/ you last night! Let me know when you're free, we should grab some grub sometime.
Her: Yeah for sure, will do!
And scene. Thoughts, suggestions, etc. Thanks
R4L
