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The woman in question is was in a 4 year relationship when we met. The relationship was pretty bad. She didn't like him always getting mad and yelling, he took her cleaning and cooking for granted, he cheated on her once. When we met she had come from California to Oklahoma, while her boyfriend had decided to go back to China. I moved pretty fast with her and things moved to sex within our first week of knowing each other.
Two in a half weeks into us seeing each other she broke up with her boyfriend who had moved back from China. We were doing a casual relationship as her parents would never accept us being together. On one occasion I joked of a threesome and she became very offended and said she's not that kind of girl, and that she doesn't like open relationships because she only wants one guy. She said that I was the fastest guy she ever slept with and that I was special.
We've been seeing each other for a month and a half and things have progressed to relationship status. She doesn't necessarily trust me because she thinks I'll leave her, and I don't necessarily trust her because she was kind of seeing someone when we met, even though she definitely made it seem they were pretty much over.
Should I trust this girl with a relationship? She's not as transparent as I like, meaning she doesn't give extra details when talking about What she is doing. Also when I ask her about What she did yesterday she always says she forgets. She says this is because she doesn't want to put energy into remembering yesterday, that she likes the present and future and that the past isn't important.
We talked about trust the other day, and her eyes got teary talking about it. Apart of me trusts her and apart of me doesn't. She said What happened between us wasn't supposed to happen. I'd like to think it did because she was basically finished with her boyfriend.
Honestly, I'm looking for a Yes you can probably trust her. Afterlife, most of her relationships are 3 or 4 years long and she has never done anything like this before.
Two in a half weeks into us seeing each other she broke up with her boyfriend who had moved back from China. We were doing a casual relationship as her parents would never accept us being together. On one occasion I joked of a threesome and she became very offended and said she's not that kind of girl, and that she doesn't like open relationships because she only wants one guy. She said that I was the fastest guy she ever slept with and that I was special.
We've been seeing each other for a month and a half and things have progressed to relationship status. She doesn't necessarily trust me because she thinks I'll leave her, and I don't necessarily trust her because she was kind of seeing someone when we met, even though she definitely made it seem they were pretty much over.
Should I trust this girl with a relationship? She's not as transparent as I like, meaning she doesn't give extra details when talking about What she is doing. Also when I ask her about What she did yesterday she always says she forgets. She says this is because she doesn't want to put energy into remembering yesterday, that she likes the present and future and that the past isn't important.
We talked about trust the other day, and her eyes got teary talking about it. Apart of me trusts her and apart of me doesn't. She said What happened between us wasn't supposed to happen. I'd like to think it did because she was basically finished with her boyfriend.
Honestly, I'm looking for a Yes you can probably trust her. Afterlife, most of her relationships are 3 or 4 years long and she has never done anything like this before.
