Can never last over 4 minutes first round

[Kaida]

Idk if its just me, but lasting a long time (45+ minutes) on my very first round of sex seems almost impossible. I blow in under 5 minutes almost every time first round. And even if I do the stop and start method I can never keep plowing for over a minute before I have to stop myself from busting.

In rounds after the first I can go crazy and do 40 minutes sometimes, but its just the first that gets me.

I’m starting to realize this may be a very important problem to fix since it takes a lot of my passion out of the sex. I just start to get bored.

If I blow fast first round, its like every round after that I’m just going through the motions and the sex isn’t as enjoyable. I sometimes even stop after around 35 minutes because I just get bored and tired of plowing, even if I know I could get the girl off more if I do.

But I know if I can learn to drag that first round out for a long time, my sex would be so much better since I got that first nut as my carrot on the stick keeping me going. And I’m sure my subsequent rounds would benefit immensely as well.

I’ve tried:

- Stop and start method

- Masturbation training with porn (might need more training to see results, but so far its not working at all lol)

Any tips guys?


(Hey @DoWhatWorks I think I remember you posting something exactly like this a while ago… you ever fix it man?)

 

[Kvothe]

how long are your intervals between ejaculation (masturbatory or sex)

 

[Kaida]

how long are your intervals between ejaculation (masturbatory or sex)

If I wanted to be as quick as possible I could likely cum nearly 2x in a row (1-3 minute interval) but I like letting myself calm down and letting the sexual energy build back up

And typically its longer than that since I dont want the second round to be short

 

[Skills]

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[Kvothe]

If I wanted to be as quick as possible I could likely cum nearly 2x in a row (1-3 minute interval) but I like letting myself calm down and letting the sexual energy build back up

And typically its longer than that since I dont want the second round to be short

I more meant how frequently are you ejaculating. I know you were doing some of the semen retention stuff

 

[Kaida]

I more meant how frequently are you ejaculating. I know you were doing some of the semen retention stuff

I dont really masturbate anymore (other than those 2 times I was trying to train before I made this post)

Having sex maybe once every 7-12 days