Hey there, this is gonna be a little field report, but also I would like your point of view, because this kinda confused me:
So, I had this girl I met through dating app. We were chatting back and forth, having a call. And one day, she texts me that she got time off from work, so I arrange a date. Few minutes later, she blocks me.
Fast forward, she unblocks me a month later, and is totally different. No longer a friendly banter, we begin flirting off the bat, escalating, she starts sending me underwear pics showing her ass, we talk more about sexual stuff (at this stage I already know, that she is open to something more on the first date). This time we agree to meet up. I walk around with her from place to place, have a coffee and a little chat, then we begin to kiss. She invites me home and we get it off no problem. One hour after sex I tell her that I need to get back home because I work tomorrow (we are from different cities). She offers me to go with me to the station, explains that she blocked me back then because she was scared but in my mind I called it bullshit, and starts asking me questions about relationship.
Till this day, I can't really explain this situation. From the first moment, I realized that she must be anxious attachment from the way she worried when I haven't texted back for a long time. But I can't really explain what changed her behaviour from being paranoid meeting up to being totally open to it+open to having sex on the first date.
So, I had this girl I met through dating app. We were chatting back and forth, having a call. And one day, she texts me that she got time off from work, so I arrange a date. Few minutes later, she blocks me.
Fast forward, she unblocks me a month later, and is totally different. No longer a friendly banter, we begin flirting off the bat, escalating, she starts sending me underwear pics showing her ass, we talk more about sexual stuff (at this stage I already know, that she is open to something more on the first date). This time we agree to meet up. I walk around with her from place to place, have a coffee and a little chat, then we begin to kiss. She invites me home and we get it off no problem. One hour after sex I tell her that I need to get back home because I work tomorrow (we are from different cities). She offers me to go with me to the station, explains that she blocked me back then because she was scared but in my mind I called it bullshit, and starts asking me questions about relationship.
Till this day, I can't really explain this situation. From the first moment, I realized that she must be anxious attachment from the way she worried when I haven't texted back for a long time. But I can't really explain what changed her behaviour from being paranoid meeting up to being totally open to it+open to having sex on the first date.
