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Space Monkey
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Hey guys,

I'm dating this girl. Went for a kiss on the third date (last time it was on the 5th date). It seemed that it worked, went for the 4th time, but on this last date when I wanted to kiss her (before going our own ways), she turned her head and gave her cheek. After 10 minutes she wrote me a message thanking for good time and apologising for not being very "contactish".

On this last date we went to autoshow, she really wanted to go there, because it seemed that it was the only reason we met, she wanted that I would take a couple of photos of her. And we never meet on weekends, she is living outised city and it seems that spends whole weekend at home. When I asked her once what she likes to do during her free time, she answered that if she could choose, she'd spend time with her friends. I have the impression that her parents are strict and don't give her much freedom.

What do you think of the prospects with this girl? I know that it's a silly question, but I don't know if it's worth spending more time with her if she doesn't like me.
 
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Marcellus

Cro-Magnon Man
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Invite her over, I'm not really sure what your intentions are? But yeah... if you wanna smash than Invite her over.
 

cubi239

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Is she young? Is she a virgin? Those factors play a role. I'm dealing with a girl like that right now and it's a difficult stage to get past. Usually I try not to take girls on more than 2 dates without some type of beneficial return.
 

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Space Monkey
space monkey
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My intention is to have her as a girlfriend. I'm living with my parents like she, so no logistics, sadly. She is almost 25, I don't know about the virginity, but she is not experienced, at least I think so, also she mentioned that she has not much experience with selecting clothes to men and then mentioned that her dad is picky regarding clothes (I asked her to help me select new trousers).
 

Lucky

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Okay you say that you've been on five dates now that is pretty bad right now she's probably got the idea that your chasing which is bad so answer these questions
Have you deep dived with her and built rapport?
Have you used playful banter and flirting?
Do you have your fundamentals down?
has she given signals to make the move and you didn't do it?
think about these questions carefully if you haven't got a positive answer for those that probably your problem. And as for you question about you thinking to move on to another girl personally i would move on but if you really want her start fixing up your problems and adapt by read the articles on this website but if your going to do that adopt a cut off mark for the girl.
 

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Space Monkey
space monkey
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Lucky, here are my answers to questions in your post:

1. Yes; 2. Yes; 3. Maybe, I can't evaluate myself objectively; 4. No. That's quite strange, but I was thinking about the windows, but actually, she gave none of them to me. In my opinion, she's quite inexperienced, that's the problem, because I was together with inexperienced girl once and she was hell of challenge to me, though I think she also had some kind of psychological problems ("every man is guilty for divorce" ect). We're meeting for the fifth time this weekend, so also strange that she keeps meeting me. Besides, I try not to look as if I'm chasing her. After that date she didn't allow to kiss her we were texting and I tried to look as an asshole, texting with her on the verge of insulting her, but playfully.
 
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