Change Attainability or Just Aim Higher?

[Oooooook]

Posted https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...ups-even-if-it’s-bad-for-relationships.23892/ a while back and did double digit approaches.

Have friends in same country who are killing online game with worse - higher body fat lower height less social/hobby success - photos.

For some reason it looks like I give off very low attainability to a large part of the population - male and female - considering most of my male friends are very dominant risk-on talented men.

Do I just give up and aim higher or try to be more empathetic/attainable? I can run attainable game for a while but it is very very exhausting, usually the more I have to use it for the girl the more exhausting it is.

 

[Velasco]

yes

 

[Oooooook]

As a response, day gaming even low body fat % good fashion decent AI has been... interesting. I'm not getting outright rejected as much as a bit of intimidation. Almost as if girls don't like confident men who have social options.

Yeah I sound like a dick but it's fucking me over and would like to fix it quick.

 

[Mr. Hawaii]

maybe you need to go for shallower girls? or if the girls you're approaching feel like its not all about the body, maybe your need to tweak your attitude a bit. maybe you're coming off as cheesy and not real enough

 

[ulrich]

As a response, day gaming even low body fat % good fashion decent AI has been... interesting. I'm not getting outright rejected as much as a bit of intimidation. Almost as if girls don't like confident men who have social options.

Yeah I sound like a dick but it's fucking me over and would like to fix it quick.

You might be intimidating yourself.

What kind of reactions make you think that you come as unattainable?