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I was not sure where to place this so if its in the wrong spot I apologize and would kindly ask the mods to move it.
Before finding girlschase in about the last month I wasn't even trying to pick up any girls. I was under the attitude "I want a girlfriend now so I'm going to try and be what every girls wants." An attitude I feel we all adopted at one instant. Recently, I have changed my mindset. Instead I stopped searching and figured if someone came along they'd come along. Shortly after this I met two girls on separate days and separate times. When I talked to them I didn't say much, I was wearing stylish new clothes, and I had improved my posture, walk, manner of speaking, etc. Now I wasn't very interested in either of these girls as they are only semi-attractive and don't fit my idea of relationship material, whether simply sexual or long-term.
All of a sudden though they were asking me for my number. Because I didn't care much about them I only half assedly responded to their texts, many times only getting back to them 5 hours after they messaged me. Soon I was receiving messages after awhile of me being silent trying to engage me in conversation again. They also have always text me first and I always let them.
One other change besides my change in texting pattern is that I have stopped qualifying girls. Before when a girl would cut herself down I'd give her a compliment and tell her shes wrong, now whenever she does I completely ignore it and continue on with conversation (or texts) as if it was never said. It almost feels as if attraction grew at this point as they seemed to try and impress me or something, I can't really explain it.
Its to the point where both are asking me if I'm flirting with them and it is clear that both are trying to find out if I'm interested as well. I am completely surprised that such a simple change in attitude has sparked such an interesting response that I've never received before. I guess you can say I'm learning how to get girls to chase me. Just thought I'd share some of my beginning experiences.
Before finding girlschase in about the last month I wasn't even trying to pick up any girls. I was under the attitude "I want a girlfriend now so I'm going to try and be what every girls wants." An attitude I feel we all adopted at one instant. Recently, I have changed my mindset. Instead I stopped searching and figured if someone came along they'd come along. Shortly after this I met two girls on separate days and separate times. When I talked to them I didn't say much, I was wearing stylish new clothes, and I had improved my posture, walk, manner of speaking, etc. Now I wasn't very interested in either of these girls as they are only semi-attractive and don't fit my idea of relationship material, whether simply sexual or long-term.
All of a sudden though they were asking me for my number. Because I didn't care much about them I only half assedly responded to their texts, many times only getting back to them 5 hours after they messaged me. Soon I was receiving messages after awhile of me being silent trying to engage me in conversation again. They also have always text me first and I always let them.
One other change besides my change in texting pattern is that I have stopped qualifying girls. Before when a girl would cut herself down I'd give her a compliment and tell her shes wrong, now whenever she does I completely ignore it and continue on with conversation (or texts) as if it was never said. It almost feels as if attraction grew at this point as they seemed to try and impress me or something, I can't really explain it.
Its to the point where both are asking me if I'm flirting with them and it is clear that both are trying to find out if I'm interested as well. I am completely surprised that such a simple change in attitude has sparked such an interesting response that I've never received before. I guess you can say I'm learning how to get girls to chase me. Just thought I'd share some of my beginning experiences.
