I have noticed lately quite a few times it happened a girl volunteered a compliment about me.
If it's early in the convo I might either it slip with a quick "thank you" or I might highlight it BUT with self-deprecating humour where she's forced to confirm the compliment.
Example: if she says I'm cute than I might laugh and say that's barely a compliment, more like offensive, and then she'd be forced to say that no, it's very positive and bla bla bla.
If it's later stages and she earned it, I feel it's an occasion to further bond and I compliment back something about her.
I don't usually use that information for chase frames though as it might be too much and also feel a bit cheesy and gamey/cheap and depending on the mood/occasion it can sometimes borderline on the offensive as you reply to a compliment by shutting her down (ie. she puts herself out there saying you're handsome with those nice jeans on and you retort with something like "hey we've just met, take it easy").
Some other times I "pry" some compliments about me.
For example if we're talking about men she finds attractive in a place with lots of people in sight I might point someone and if she say he's "okaysh" then I might ask if I'm hotter and get a compliment about it (or well, NOT get a compliment and know it's probably not going anywhere lol).
Some other times I might just flat out ask if she thinks I'm handsome/attractive and sometimes even cute if I don't feel like risking too much (I know you might think cute ain't such a powerful attribute but it did get me laid as well).
GENUINE COMPLIMENT BY HER AND CHASE FRAMES
Anyway, all this spiel was to bring me to the point, which is the following:
When her positive opinion / interest is out there in the open I feel you need less chase frames or not need any at all.
And much less so chase frame about her chasing you in the specific, which might then push your attainability a bit too low. I'd still often indeed poke some fun about her being on the prowl for cute boys.
If it's early in the convo I might either it slip with a quick "thank you" or I might highlight it BUT with self-deprecating humour where she's forced to confirm the compliment.
Example: if she says I'm cute than I might laugh and say that's barely a compliment, more like offensive, and then she'd be forced to say that no, it's very positive and bla bla bla.
If it's later stages and she earned it, I feel it's an occasion to further bond and I compliment back something about her.
I don't usually use that information for chase frames though as it might be too much and also feel a bit cheesy and gamey/cheap and depending on the mood/occasion it can sometimes borderline on the offensive as you reply to a compliment by shutting her down (ie. she puts herself out there saying you're handsome with those nice jeans on and you retort with something like "hey we've just met, take it easy").
Some other times I "pry" some compliments about me.
For example if we're talking about men she finds attractive in a place with lots of people in sight I might point someone and if she say he's "okaysh" then I might ask if I'm hotter and get a compliment about it (or well, NOT get a compliment and know it's probably not going anywhere lol).
Some other times I might just flat out ask if she thinks I'm handsome/attractive and sometimes even cute if I don't feel like risking too much (I know you might think cute ain't such a powerful attribute but it did get me laid as well).
GENUINE COMPLIMENT BY HER AND CHASE FRAMES
Anyway, all this spiel was to bring me to the point, which is the following:
When her positive opinion / interest is out there in the open I feel you need less chase frames or not need any at all.
And much less so chase frame about her chasing you in the specific, which might then push your attainability a bit too low. I'd still often indeed poke some fun about her being on the prowl for cute boys.
