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ocantu1987

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Ive been trying to incorporate chase frames into my conversations, but I am still struggling to come up with them. Does anyone have a list of chase frames you use for the common things women say? I read the article but i need some more ideas...
 

Howell

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Hello Ocantu,

Using chase frames is actually really simple. A lot of guys make the mistake of over-complicating them, but usually all you're doing is amusing yourself with sexual humor targeted at getting her to invest more. Doing this doesn't require lines or forward planning. It's more that, once you get the general idea and understand what you're doing and why, they'll just come naturally when you need them.

First, don't think of chase frames as lines. Not all chase frames are verbal. There is however a verbal element oftentimes, but focusing entirely on them can slow you down. Think of chase frames as you slyly getting her to invest and think about you sexually. So it's a pretty broad and multi-pronged category involving preselection, humor, investment, timing, and more.

Also, if you're not getting girls hooking, chase frames aren't going to help you very much. Using them when they have no investment in you is not very effective -- they're best used after she's already following and you now want to up the sexuality of the interaction.

However, I do think there is value in knowing a few solid lines to build your chase frames around and get an idea of what they can look like. A few examples I can think of on the spot:

1. "Are you coming onto me?" Joking around with a girl that she's coming on strong and that it's fun. Remember though, as with all of these examples, they can also blow things up if used at a time when things aren't playful or already sort of going in this direction. You say it like you already know the answer, and give her a sly grin. Afterwards you will usually want to release a bit of tension with a safer subject and reward her with more attention if she acquiesced to your frame.

2. "You're cleverer than the the girls who usually try and get into my pants."

3. Give a girl "oh really" eyes. Raise an eyebrow like you see through her. She will often blanch, say "what!", then start investing even more in you. Your response to her what can be silence or shrug or maybe say something like "That's an interesting image..." (What is it?) I'll tell you later, I don't think we're ready for that quite yet."

4. "I like how forward you are. Most girls your age are just so timid when it comes to going after what they want." I say this when the girl is generally being a little standoffish, but not so much that it's obvious that I'm reframing things so she feels allowed to more openly show her desire.

Hope you find this useful,
Howell
 

mb1

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Man it's everything. You trying to get answers out of us? That's a chase frame.

If she shows interest, put it in her face. If you're talking online and she says "so what do you do?", if it's already been a little sexual, you can say "you can come drill me in person", implying she wants to know more about you, and it's also a sexual innuendo that's VERY polarizing to force her to make up her mind to enter sexual territory with you. Girls will often laugh. Just keep moving along with the conversation without making her acknowledge it. The whole point is to be talking in secret code underneath your real words.

Another one: "if you want to _____, give me a shout". (could be "grab that beer this week", etc.)

If they get in touch, it's like buying into the idea of them wanting it, and it's also complying with a command.
 

mb1

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Just used one, so came to post it. The important thing to remember is not to reuse chase frame lines too much. It's all about framing the conversation that way, and sometimes it can take a single line to do so, but is even better if it's kept up. For example, if you start teasing a girl that the date is an interview for your secretary position, the interaction becomes framed like she's trying to get the job from you based off her skills.

A different one I just used was on online dating, going for a bold date request to see a waterfall. We haven't even met yet, so in situations where you know a girl is going to have her walls up to make sure that you are safe, you can say something like let's meet quick this week during the day first so I can make sure you're not a rapist. What this does is show you get the safety concern, actually lead her through the inevitable objection process to your desired result (showing again that you get it), positions HER as the chaser, makes it sexual (by eliciting one of the most powerful female sexual fantasies), and is moving towards logistics, all in one line.

If the girl's not down for getting sexual, she's gonna throw up more resistance. In my case, she "submitted" and said there goes her plan. She's playing along with the frame (while being allowed to brush it off as a joke), then we moved on to logistics.

You can even force frame stuff, like if a girl just asks you what's up, you can just start talking as if she has asked how soon she can come over.
 

mb1

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Here's a completely separate one also from online:

I linked her to My Secret Garden. The park is referencing outdoor sex.

Her: You're very bold to jump to the pillow before having seen me
Her: ... Or no?
Me: Hey I'm talking fantasy. You invited lamb into your chiminea. I could converse all night and head home or bring pillows in the park. Choose a chapter.
Her: Are you in [CITY OUT OF TOWN FOR WKND]?
Her: Or making your way to my chimney?
 

Richard

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Okay, chase frames.

A chase frame is a statement that makes it seem like the girl is investing in you, or trying to push things along with you. They force her to acknowledge her attraction to you.

So, any time a girl does something to invest in you, or move things along with you, etc. then notice it and you can make it a frame.

A girl buys you a beer - "Sorry darling, I know you're trying to get me drunk to get in my pants but...." <--- You're making it seem like she's to push things forward with you.

A girl grabs shirt/necklace/etc. - "Woah! Woah! You're getting awfully touchy with me. This is supposed to be PG-13." <--- Again, you're pointing out something she did and spinning it to make it seem like she wants you.

Anything a girl does, any signs of interest she sends can be used as chase frames. Mine are almost always sexual and playful as well.

-Richard
 

HellAtlantic

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my go to chase frame before I even approach/intro myself is to position myself next to a girl or girls. I drink a bit from my beer and I go to use the bathroom. As I'm walking away I say to the girl/girls "I'm gonna step away for a second, can you guys not put a roofy in my drink while I'm away" and without fail they will laugh and make some type of remark like "oh you can totally trust us/me", something along those lines. Such an easy line. When I get back I thank them, look at my beer and will say "are you sure there's nothing in my drink?" And they'll almost always say "you'll just have to find out the hard way" or "you'll just have to trust us". Then I intro myself and the convo starts. What this does is 1.) establishes me as an attractive person that someone would want to fornicate with, 2) empowers the girl because roofy in drinks is something they normally have to worry about so it shows I'm acknowledging the shit they have to put up with, 3) roofy in drink has a sexual connotation because it puts the image of me getting sexually taken advantage of by them. When I return I'm basically preselected because here I am the guy who broke the ice with them and oh look I'm the guy you just had an image in your head of having your way with me. Because I'm tall, muscular and good looking (I look like Vin Diesel more or less) someone like me saying "don't put a roofy in my drink" comes off pretty funny.
 
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mb1

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That one's genius man. What's the most efficient you've been with that one? I imagine if a girl can speak privately right away, there's great opportunity to continue with a sexual frame, like ask if she'd find it hot to call Bill Cosby Daddy. Something like that... Lol
 

HellAtlantic

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Well I'm married but that don't mean I don't like attention from other girls. It works (for me) 100% of the time in terms of opening and having girls to talk to. Watch now I jinxed myself and every girl I use that on will be like "I actually was roofied once and was gang raped while passed out. Not funny". Lol.
 

mb1

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Haha yeah eh it could backfire. Ohh and yeah I see your name now from the friendzone thread whoops. No avatars lol
 

Prehistoric

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I just recently used chase frame while texting with a girl and I used it to ask her out, which apparently worked. It went like this:

me: "So how you doing Rose? Been thinking about me all day?
her: "Yes without pause :) I was trying to study but It was so hard to concentrate :p"
me: "I hope you won't fail your exams because of me :) by the way don't despair, I thought a little bit about you too!"
her: "That surely is a consolation!"
me:" Yes, maybe you have a chance if you play it right =p We should go out and you should try your luck"
her: "Alright then, I better not let this chance slip!"

I like to mix it with humorous high status projection, communicating 1) you are hitting on me 2) it happens to me all the time around girls, so you should play your cards right if you want to win the prize
 

ocantu1987

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could have swore I saw a huge list of chase frames someone made here on the boards. Couldnt find it.
 
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