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Observations  Chase View It From State To State. I view it as linear

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I wanted to point out.

We all shit on David Tian but I feel like he didn't address his states. In fact, many women don't address states. That's why I am healing because my mother is a narcissist.

I message to Chase on an old email. I was telling him about how dating women can be like a battlefield. He then noted to see it as a game of crowded places and not crowded places.

His perspective was awesome. But

But just like any white men, just like any black men in a black hood,

We don't see that we are talking from a privilege standpoint.

Now, here is where men start dropping weapons and make women the emperor. Or be more nicer to kids. Or be more nice to friends.

Here's the thing:

1)its passive to do that
2)if there is no king, there is no life.

Most people do not want to lead. Leadership is hard. You the guy who is actually at the front of the army, the one who is likely getting shot by sniper.

Ever notice why most CEOs dwell? It's because they don't know and not sure, and in the buffer time, the one who makes decision is the middle management, and if fail, they get shot. If success, the CEO gets rewarded.

And middle management are pissed.

Chase didn't respect where I am, if that makes sense. And I can tell you many times, I fail this here despite recognizing it in theory.

This is the real power of "soft". To acknowledge the linear thought forms building up. Even though logically, it's just few words of " yea, yea" or a simple nod or a nice hand gesture.

This is what makes the difference and I have always been far ahead of everyone in this.

At least in theory but application takes mastery.

I am talking a lot of stuff here. But it makes sense to me.

To people, it's personal. Which means you must always end state on a high, or you solve their problem.

Trump is a fucking G. He master this. Advertising fundamentals applied to personal relationship. But of course, a master nuance know when people is bullshitting.

That's why the term "real" exist. To be present, to actually know.

I'm going everywhere here but I'm on fire.

To be verbally complimentary but fuck Zac. Don't reveal your cards yet.

That's one perspective. Another perspective is we don't have an answer. That's all in one situation. And because we never communicate properly that we don't have an answer and in this case here, Chase didn't acknowledge in a way that I find it satisfying.... if that makes sense, that I feel that women, they are like a battlefield,

This is where every hostile issues rise.
 
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