Hi , i had an intresting situation that , i had a girlfriend for 3 years and it was long distance and we love eachother that for every month we travel for twice to eachothers city and i was her first man both for love and sex . after 3 years
probably i had a 2 year drop thing that she became none attractive to me anymore and my commitment went very down and i made her too insecure that i said things like sometimes i had ideas of breakup and anything and she cried . later i needed to go to abroad for 4 months and when i have gone she find another guy . She actually didn't cheated me she breakup with me 1.5 month and run to the other guy and i know they started talking the time i have gone .
The thing is she also understood that she is not attractive for me anymore because in my circle there are more attractive and beautiful girls that i started to talk more and more then her.
and i think that was really hard for her . Then when i go abroad (belarus ) for my opinion really really beautiful girls in belarus i understood beauty is not too much important and i started love my girlfriend so now im back she is with another guy that makes her happy and the guy is very social and have confidence for unknown people and have a decision making skill that my girlfriend always hated me for not having that .She always thinks that i can create very beautiful things
in anything but i never commit to make it and the guy is opposite of me having success in his hobbies . I'm also an interesting guy .
so i look in his facebook and i think he is cute and happy person and this fuels him to make or commit everything he does .But i think not a cool or wild one , that after a month he bought presents and started to plan his life according to her (what i didn't do ,i graduated last year and i could go to work in her city but for me the work would be very bad and not the work i want to chose for my life) and takes her with him to everywhere he goes. but she didn't take him to a ball for medicene students which she wanted to take me before as i remember .And as such an interesting and social guy he never had such a girlfriend .
so she needed commitment she gave me ultimatoms and i didn't make them , and she find another one to commit. so did she find or choose another guy like the girls of rebound phase in #1 a cute guy more than manly man. When i was back
i meet with her i feel she had nothing left for me but it may be in cool off phase because in words she makes sarcasm and gets little angry when she gives the examples where i didn't commit . And will girls who cheat because of none commitment still has the pinky rose glasses for the guy they couldn't tame ? so i saw some photos that she was really happy because the guy is funny and have very much friends and hobbies that he share with the girl and its very good for her because of that she is studying medicine she has very little free time and for 2 years she didnt have any circle like this and became very bored .My circle is more attractive actually but in another city . And in every photo she was texting
i think with the guy probably.
so will she have any longing phase or does she started to love him maybe her unconscious somehow started love another one because of commitment . Or she may just satisfying her emotional needs ? . i know that she didn't love him in the 3rd month now end of the march the 5th months goes . And my sex was good actually better than anything her friends ever encountered i think so . and i think if he is better than me in that way she will be really in love that i could feel it or she may not tell me anything that she started to see another guy. i chase her a little bit when i was abroad because it was a hard time for me that first time i was living alone and i couldnt sleep for a month because of sweat.and one time i swear her but later apologized with saying that im not expecting anything . she told me she understood thats because of im abroad and when i come to my country i will be very normal and could handle it . and thats it i'm back and i want her back and i'm always thinking about her but never chased after i came to home. so does the cheating because of commitment is the same phases of break up
probably i had a 2 year drop thing that she became none attractive to me anymore and my commitment went very down and i made her too insecure that i said things like sometimes i had ideas of breakup and anything and she cried . later i needed to go to abroad for 4 months and when i have gone she find another guy . She actually didn't cheated me she breakup with me 1.5 month and run to the other guy and i know they started talking the time i have gone .
The thing is she also understood that she is not attractive for me anymore because in my circle there are more attractive and beautiful girls that i started to talk more and more then her.
and i think that was really hard for her . Then when i go abroad (belarus ) for my opinion really really beautiful girls in belarus i understood beauty is not too much important and i started love my girlfriend so now im back she is with another guy that makes her happy and the guy is very social and have confidence for unknown people and have a decision making skill that my girlfriend always hated me for not having that .She always thinks that i can create very beautiful things
in anything but i never commit to make it and the guy is opposite of me having success in his hobbies . I'm also an interesting guy .
so i look in his facebook and i think he is cute and happy person and this fuels him to make or commit everything he does .But i think not a cool or wild one , that after a month he bought presents and started to plan his life according to her (what i didn't do ,i graduated last year and i could go to work in her city but for me the work would be very bad and not the work i want to chose for my life) and takes her with him to everywhere he goes. but she didn't take him to a ball for medicene students which she wanted to take me before as i remember .And as such an interesting and social guy he never had such a girlfriend .
so she needed commitment she gave me ultimatoms and i didn't make them , and she find another one to commit. so did she find or choose another guy like the girls of rebound phase in #1 a cute guy more than manly man. When i was back
i meet with her i feel she had nothing left for me but it may be in cool off phase because in words she makes sarcasm and gets little angry when she gives the examples where i didn't commit . And will girls who cheat because of none commitment still has the pinky rose glasses for the guy they couldn't tame ? so i saw some photos that she was really happy because the guy is funny and have very much friends and hobbies that he share with the girl and its very good for her because of that she is studying medicine she has very little free time and for 2 years she didnt have any circle like this and became very bored .My circle is more attractive actually but in another city . And in every photo she was texting
i think with the guy probably.
so will she have any longing phase or does she started to love him maybe her unconscious somehow started love another one because of commitment . Or she may just satisfying her emotional needs ? . i know that she didn't love him in the 3rd month now end of the march the 5th months goes . And my sex was good actually better than anything her friends ever encountered i think so . and i think if he is better than me in that way she will be really in love that i could feel it or she may not tell me anything that she started to see another guy. i chase her a little bit when i was abroad because it was a hard time for me that first time i was living alone and i couldnt sleep for a month because of sweat.and one time i swear her but later apologized with saying that im not expecting anything . she told me she understood thats because of im abroad and when i come to my country i will be very normal and could handle it . and thats it i'm back and i want her back and i'm always thinking about her but never chased after i came to home. so does the cheating because of commitment is the same phases of break up
