Chef's Journal

[CookMasterChef]

Hello All,

My name is Chef and I just started my journey on the road that few travel which is seduction. Lately I have had mild success since I have started. Last Week I was going out to a mall (around the corner) and finding women to talk too. I have even got a couple numbers from some girls who have shown interest. Only one of the numbers led to a date, which I just had two days ago. It went relatively well ending off with a light kiss. Lets call the girl M, she was pretty receptive and cute with two piercings on her upper and bottom lip. The next day I set up another date but with a girl whom I had layed with back in may. Even though we left on bad terms all I had to do was text her that I wanted to meet up and she was really intrigued by my boldness and complied. That will be friday.

Last night I get a snapchat from M that left me with a puzzled look on my face. I began to ask myself what does she want since I told her earlier that day that I can't hang out tomorrow since I have to work at my second job. She wanted to take pictures and chat a little bit which I did not mind. So I figured that I would entertain her a bit at least until I fell asleep. We begin to take pictures of one another and send them out. I can soon tell that she wants to get sexual since she is wearing nothing but a t shirt in her snaps and is constantly asking me if I want to see more. I reply with a, "thats cool". She begins to send me a barrage of nude snaps with which shows me all of the piercing that I did not know about. I was pretty turned on by this point. Then I ask her if she wants to see a movie tomorrow night just to get her out. I don't really plan on seeing a movie though . I'm sure she knows that as well.

While acquiring new girls to go out with and working two jobs I am quickly realizing that it is difficult to juggle multiple girls and still find time to approach new ones. If anyone is reading this and has suggestions please share. All in all I guess it has been a good start to my journey. I just want to be able to meet more new and interesting women so that It doesn't grow stale as I continue forward.

 

[CookMasterChef]

Last night didn't go so well. I worked my second job for 4 hours only for the M to flake on me before even going in. She said she would make it up to me though but I have already moved on to other things. I have a date tonight with a girl who I last saw a couple months ago. She wants to go to the movies so I said to myself why not. I saw a girl with a banging body at quicktrip yesterday but once I saw her face it stopped me from approaching. I wish that I would have though, " Regret is a bitch". Its like once you see an opportunity and don't pounce on it it seems to eat at you for a while. Trying to not let it get to me though. I plan on approaching for a few hours after work since I have time to kill before my date. I should go to an inside mall since it will be a 100 today but none near me so outside mall it is. Need to buy a tank. I am just venting now lol, nobody reads these anyway right.

Things to work on:
1. Kill AA and approach anyway even if I think that the girl is not all that cute. If I can find something about her I like then just go up to the girl and tell her that.
2. Follow the rule of abundance and continue to bring new woman into my life without fear of rejection because there are so many out there.
3. Get a/c in my car for these incredibly hot days
4. Learn to approach on sight.

 

[CookMasterChef]

7/25/2016

So I only made two approaches today and they were both with really hot girls. Both approaches I feel as though I may have been a bit intimidated just because of the shear beauty of the girls. This is how my approaches went.
For the first approach I was in Walmart just shopping for some groceries where I see a short thick curvy brunette with an amazing ass.

Me: Hey
Girl1: ?
Me: Hey I just thought you were cute and just wanted to say hi
Girl1: Smiles abruptly puts head down and keeps walking then says, " I have a boyfriend."

I just stood there a little relieved because I approached as soon as I saw her.

Next I went to the mall to try and get some approaches in but only ended up talking to one girl. She was a cute white girl who had dreadlocks which intrigued me. Oh and not to mention she had an amazing ass.( I consider myself an ass man if you can't already tell lol)
I saw her walk into the ice cream shop and sat on a bench outside to see if I could approach her on the way out.
When she leaves I proceed to circle around so that I would walk up on her.
As soon as I approach with my opener I saw her look my way and kind of darted my eyes away from her to the left.
It went something like this

Me: Hey
Girl2: ?
Me: I really like your hair, how long have you been growing it out?
2: Hi, Ive had these dreads for about two years now.
Me: Wow, thats amazing and they're already so long.
2: Well I have exstensions in right now but yea my hair was down my back when I got them.
Me: Thats cool, well I just wanted to tell you that you are cute
2: Thanks

Then she storms off in the other direction. I could tell that she wasn't into me because of my bad start to the interaction and my voice wasn't as strong as it usually is. When I approach girls I really want or really find attractive for some reason I end up being so in my head wondering about what could happen.
This leaves me not present in the interaction and I become incredibly shy. I know the girls can sense this once I approach and attempt to talk to them like I haven't talked to a girl since I was eight. I even stopped Girl2 when I first approached but then began to walk in her direction like I was leading her away just out of pure nervousness. Its easy to approach girls who I find ok or basic but when I see girls who I really want I want to be able to go out and pick them up. Just another stepping stone on my journey to becoming a master seducer I guess.

Things to work on:
-Need to become comfortable around girls that I am genuinely attracted to.
-Eye contact needs to be stronger and not falter
-Work on stopping the girl or stopping myself for longer interactions.
-Continue to approach more and more attractive girls.
-Work on banter and getting the convo to a point where the girl will invest
-Keep the convo lighthearted, fun, and sexy to spike interest.

 

[CookMasterChef]

So yesterday I went to the gym as a new part of my routine. I started off playing basketball for some quick cardio then proceeded to work out afterwards. Towards the end of my workout I notice a cute brunette with a great ass in front of me giving me glances as I work out. I take note of this and continue to finish my workout. I soon finish my set and see the brunette heading on her way out so I begin to engage. As she is walking out the door she notices me coming behind her and holds the door open for me. I saw this as an opportunity and began to start a conversation. It went something like this.

Me:Hey do you have a name?
B:Yes
Me: How can I find out?
B: My name is Regi. (with a smile)
Me: Hey Regi my name is Chef. How are you doing today?
B: Im good.
Me: I noticed you working out and it looked like you was really working up a sweat. Do you come here often?
B: Yeah I try and come everyday.
Me: Thats good. Do you live around here?
B: Yea i am not to far from here.
Me: But are you from here?
B: No I am from brazil.
Me: That explains that cute accent of yours. So how long have you been in America
B: I have been here for eleven years.
Me: Thats cool, well I have to head back inside to finish my workout. Can I get you number?
B: Yea sure.

The coversation was a bit platonic but I did get her number and then gave her a hug goodbye. The strangest thing happened during the hug however. I gave her a side hug because I noticed I had a raging hard on in my athletic shorts. This is where she kinda looks down and I am pretty sure she noticed it. (Man was she sexy) I just wrote it off in my head because the interaction was already over but, it could have an impact on if I come off as creepy or not... idk. I sent her a text a couple hours along the line of just introducing myself and saying it was nice to meet her. No response as of yet.

Soon after the above interaction I continued to finish my workout. Once I finished I went to grab my younger brother who was at the gym with me. I saw him then remembered I left my bag in the weight room. I went back to grab it when i noticed a thick, curvy, blonde with nice legs heading my way. I walked up with no hesitation and approached. She seemed familiar so it started off something like this.

Me: Hey, Do I know you from somewhere?
tcb: Hmmm. Idk. Did you go to xxx(name of hs)?
Me: Yea I did, we must of had class together or something. Did you talk much?
tcb: No not really
Me: Yeah me either, that must be why my memory is a little foggy.
tcb: Un huh, So what are you doing now?
Me: Im just going to school right now you know living the dream. How about you?
tcb: I am going to school at xxx.
Me: Wow thats a huge school. I am sure your having a good time.
tcb: Yeah kinda its been a lot of riots lately

We continue to talk but the convo was again pretty platonic she did tell me though that she was training to run a half marathon which I found interesting. I continued to deep dive a bit then grabbed her number and was on my way.
I texted her a couple of hours later as well which seemed to be going well at first. I suggested a meet up then the girl took a long time to message me back. She then tells me after a while that she has a boyfriend and doesn't want to lead me on. I tell her that I was a little surprised and a bit jealous but wouldn't mind just having her as a cool person in my life since she was pretty cool. I figure I could just hang out with her every once in a while and have a good connection. I could also learn from her with some light flirting, bantering, and other techniques I could use without fear of her just running off. The only bad thing is that she has a bf which means no sex... well without risk. I think in all it was a good interaction or good practice per say.

Things done well:
-Approached without hesitation
-Held conversations for longer than usual.
-Number closed in both interactions

Things to work on:
-Need to let my intentions known more clearly
-Must control sexual urges especially in loose fitting attire
-Try and initiate more touch , sexual talk, and flirting to make the convo more enjoyable.

 

[CookMasterChef]

Hey so I have been to the gym for the most part of last week and decided to have a few more gym approaches under my belt. Now I do not think that I realized when I was just going to the gym and not approaching women; but most of the women in there who I think about approaching seems to be in either their late 20s or somewhere in there 30s. This hasn't stopped me though, I have continued to approach and have talked to about 10 women in my local gym. Most of whom I would find out are married or have boyfriends. Sometimes I would not find this out till after I get there number and suggest to meet up (then why would you give me your number in the first place smh). I guess that I need to work on building more of a sexy vibe so that these women know what I am there for without explicitly saying it. There have been mostly good interactions where I will talk with the girl for 5 to 10 minutes but still not to many results. I am trying to implement talking to women before I do my daily tasks or just creating more time in my schedule to approach. I am still working to jobs but not for much longer since school is but a week away. Once school starts then I can see how far I have progressed since last year while trying out my new moves and becoming quite the seducer on campus.

Improvements:
AA is becoming less and less of a problem
I am having stronger and stronger fundamentals each day
No longer need to think of things to say in my head

Things to work on:
Need to focus on creating more of a sexy vibe
Implement sexual framing into my game
Create a stronger voice
Focus on creating sexual tension
Create more of a desirable personality

 

[CookMasterChef]

So i was at work at my second job conversating and enjoying my last day. It wasn't to bad got to talk to some pretty women on the job which I think helped for the interaction that was to come.
At the end of my shift, the two guys I close with and I where shooting shit and just talking bout life as we began to depart ways. Then suddenly I see this blonde bombshell walk out of gamestop next door.
I turn to my coworkers and say if she stops to sit down then I am on her. It appeared that she did not and kept walking around by herself for a while. I turned away and read it off as shes on a mission and continued the conversation with my coworkers.
Somewhere within the conversation I look back and she is sitting on a bench across the street playing on her phone. So I tell my pals that I am on the move and proceed to walk over to her.
As I began to get closer I notice her get up and start walking my way. I pre approach with a hey then proceed to tell her that she is cute and ask her what she is doing sitting alone in a outlet mall.
She tells me that she is on break from work at gamestop and is just passing the time. At this moment I notice her playing pokemon and proceed to banter with her about it for a while. I then ask her if she plays much to which she replies with a no not at all. I did break the touch barrier once asking her name and shaking her hand but could not continue to add more once the conversation was in full swing.
I ask her how she got the job because I have been applying for awhile and never got the job and she says that she made a bet. I reply with whom and I guess that you won.
She says yes I did and it was with my husband (I always choose the girls with husbands...HOW?).
I plow through this and continue conversing once in front of gamestop I tell her that we should make a bet.
To which she replies I'm listening.
I say that if I can go in gamestop talk to the clerk and guess his favorite game you give me your number.
She then says whats in it for me?
I reply with you'll get to have an amazing time with an amazing adventurous guy.
She then says that she is married and cant give out her number.
I say that it is my duty as a man who pursues beautiful women to take your number with a sly smile.
She then says how about I just take down your number?
I reply with on one condition... you send me a cute pic.
She says but...
Then i go but..
She continues... no nudies.
At this point I crack another sly smile and say I am cool with that. but it better be worth my while
I give her my number and she gives me a call so I have hers.
I tell her goodbye as she walks into the store and leave it at that.

I send a text about a hour and a half later with no reply.

Good:
In all I thought it was a good reaction
It was smooth transitions and got some good bantering and made it fun

Bad:
Need to find out relationship statuses earlier in interaction
Need to add more bantering and
Set better frames (get her chasing)
Add more touch and become a little bit more flirtatious

Any help is greatly appreciated

 

[CookMasterChef]

So I was at the gym yesterday when as I was walking out of the basketball court I notice this blonde chick with a nice body starring at me. I take note of this and proceed to the workout area where she happened to be and started my work out. In between my sets I would casually look over because she seemed to be pretty cute, then I realized something. I knew this girl in high school. We never really talked a whole lot in high school and were never particularity close. However, it seemed as though she wasn't sure if I remembered her or if she even knew it was me since I was looking a little different. She was looking even better then she did in high school which I did not think would happen. So I continue my sets and notice her orbiting around me but I do not approach I am to into my head and feel like I shouldn't since she was still continuing her workout. I then decide to go upstairs and continue to finish my workout; it happened to be some pull ups on the other side of the gym next to a water fountain. Towards the end of my set I notice her on the other side of the gym with water jug in hand. She sets it down and starts heading straight for me. I then didn't know what to say so I panicked turned my head down and pretended like I didn't notice. She walks towards me with a quizzical look on her face then just takes a quick sip of water, turns around and proceeds to make her way to the exit. At this point I feel like a total bitch and pretty mad at myself for at least not attempting. I am sure I may see her one more time but don't know if I should even approach after that. Maybe its all in my head... idk.

Things to work on:
Approaching all women
Eliminating AA
Being confident even with people I know and are not comfortable around
Taking advantage of approach invitations