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Kind of a FR in progress (hopefully) and I'll probably post updates about this.
So one day I was heading up to a local rec center to meet a friend so we could work out. On my way up there, I saw a group of girls giggling and making a scene. As I was walking by, they asked me to take a picture with them for a treasure hunt. I obliged, then I kept walking. Later, I saw a girl from behind, pretty cute looking. Let's call her Miss A. She kept looking back at me and I took it as a sort of approach invitation.
I walked up to her as she was talking with some other girls.
Me:"So what are you guys doing at the park?"
Miss A:"We're doing a treasure hunt"
Me:"Oh nice, just wondering." My AA got the better of me here and I ejected WAY too soon.
So with that out of the way, at school, I was outside waiting for a ride with a friend. Miss A then came up to me and asked me:
"Hey! Do you remember me?"
Me:"Uh, not really, did we meet?"
Miss A:"Yeah, remember at the park?"
Me:"Oh yeah! What's your name? (This is the first time I actually got her name)
Her: "Miss A"
Mess up #1 Here I made some boring conversation and she left the set first. Usually I wouldn't see this as a big deal, but! I didn't get her number, and I felt like I was in a position of chasing now.
Next week I planned to approach her again (Today) and I locked eyes with her outside of school.
She initiated a hug between us(Good?) then...
Mess up #2 I initiated boring conversation AGAIN, asking about her classes, boring stuff. She then ended the interaction AGAIN.
So I do plan on talking to her again tomorrow, hopefully pulling this number. I want to try and deep dive her and put her back in the chasing position she was in originally when she approached me. I know I'll have to move very fast because my school is PACKED this year and she's a 7-8, compared to other girls at my school.
So if any of you have advice on how to proceed if I haven't completely screwed this up, that'd be great.
Jake.
So one day I was heading up to a local rec center to meet a friend so we could work out. On my way up there, I saw a group of girls giggling and making a scene. As I was walking by, they asked me to take a picture with them for a treasure hunt. I obliged, then I kept walking. Later, I saw a girl from behind, pretty cute looking. Let's call her Miss A. She kept looking back at me and I took it as a sort of approach invitation.
I walked up to her as she was talking with some other girls.
Me:"So what are you guys doing at the park?"
Miss A:"We're doing a treasure hunt"
Me:"Oh nice, just wondering." My AA got the better of me here and I ejected WAY too soon.
So with that out of the way, at school, I was outside waiting for a ride with a friend. Miss A then came up to me and asked me:
"Hey! Do you remember me?"
Me:"Uh, not really, did we meet?"
Miss A:"Yeah, remember at the park?"
Me:"Oh yeah! What's your name? (This is the first time I actually got her name)
Her: "Miss A"
Mess up #1 Here I made some boring conversation and she left the set first. Usually I wouldn't see this as a big deal, but! I didn't get her number, and I felt like I was in a position of chasing now.
Next week I planned to approach her again (Today) and I locked eyes with her outside of school.
She initiated a hug between us(Good?) then...
Mess up #2 I initiated boring conversation AGAIN, asking about her classes, boring stuff. She then ended the interaction AGAIN.
So I do plan on talking to her again tomorrow, hopefully pulling this number. I want to try and deep dive her and put her back in the chasing position she was in originally when she approached me. I know I'll have to move very fast because my school is PACKED this year and she's a 7-8, compared to other girls at my school.
So if any of you have advice on how to proceed if I haven't completely screwed this up, that'd be great.
Jake.