I need help guys because I'm learning the beginning phase however my closing seems to suck. So here the story goes and I'll try to make it short. I was hanging out with the greeter at Walmart late at night and he was sitting chilling. I asked him, where the HBs were in the store and he commented on where they worked. I then stated that if I was him I would be pulling all day with the, "receipt move." I'll explain later. So we're standing there and a lady comes walking out. Not exceptionally attractive but she's got big knockers and a big butt, my qualifier and a decent face. I spoke to her as she was exiting like a police officer.
"Mam, we need to check your bags!" The guy siting also played along (or maybe not) and said he would like to see her receipt. She didn't believe me but he had the uniform on so then she stopped. I went to her and upon getting close said,
"I don't need to check your bags, I just wanted to check you out." She then seemed amused so I followed her to her car and didn't get her number but gave her mine.
I Kinda forgot about this one in light of my last adventure (see FR; The date). However out of the blue she text me and it went something like this:
Her: Hey how r U?
Me: Who is this?
Her: This is Lynette, the girl you met at Walmart a couple of days ago.
Me: Oh yeah the one with the reflective belts.lol! How r u?
Her: Fine. I just want to see how r u doing?
Me: Working.
Her: So what side of town do you stay on?
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Me: Why? You trying to get with me or something?
Her; No, I was just wondering and I'm not trying to get with you, just trying to get to know you.
Her: I'm definitely not interested in sex or nothing like that if that's what you mean but if you want to get to know me, proceed.
So I remember the article. If she says she's not into sex, then it must be on her mind
So we talk and then one night at work she text back. I decided to push for a date.
Me: Well let's get some coffee later. I get off at 11:30pm.
Her: No, I get off at 1AM so no time for coffee. Too late
This is where the persistence training kicked in.
Me: Perfect! I get off at 11:30 and you at 1. Good timing. Let's meet at #$#$ near #$#$#.
Her: I don't know I rather go out on Sunday in the day time.
Me: Sundays for church (she's a church girl) we can go out now if you'll like.
Her: I'll call you at 1 AM
She calls and I convince her to meet me at a certain place. At the onset I tell her my dating rule (We go dutch)! She agrees. She holds me on the phone the whole time so I deep dove. I applied humor and made a little fun of her accent and teased her bit when she said she saw "12" which is southern lingo for the police. "I can tell you got some street smarts. Anybody that know the code name 12 blah blah blah" I then teased that I'm have to be on the lookout and I hope she's not setting me up. I found out where she grew up, her family history, past relationships, etc etc (women love to talk about themselves) I got lost so I hung up and told her I'm on the way.lol! When I got there, I couldn't find her so I looked down at my phone. A text
Her: I'm sorry, it's real late and I don't need to be around late like this. I left (A real Dear John text).
So I called her again to which she tells me she is at her house. I then persist and run a guilt trip on her.
"you got me all the way out here and then leave after waiting a few minutes."
That persistence things is real powerful. It is the weapon against flaking.
She then turned around and we met and entered the dining room. I teased her when I went to the bathroom and said, "Don't leave now, I'm coming back.lol!"
Upon eating she asked me alot of questions, like am I married, to which I answered:
"Would that make a difference if I was. Some women like that you know."
I then said I was joking after she pulled it out of me and had to tell her that I don't have time for a committed relationship. She still felt unsure and after I told her I had eggs earlier this morning she said,
"Who cooked them?"
I jokingly replied, "My wife and girlfriend, they cooked them. They're into that sort of thing."
She looked shock and once again I had to re-affirm her I was joking. She then asked my age, to which I asked her to guess. She had no clue and put me near her age, to which I said,
"There you go, we'll make a great couple. Age is only a number anyway."
I deflected her answers very well and tried to turn the conversation to her but she caught on once and said, "don't change the subject." She then started acting annoyed and then complained that I was being too indirect. When I asked her about her food, she then began to become indirect with me, " Why don't you let the waiter get you some?" The conversation then started to go downhill and then I decided to try to extend the night with the yes ladder.
She answered yes; she's attracted to me, I'm attractive but too indirect. I asked her if we could catch a movie later on at her place and .....the stupid statement popped up again (see FR; The date) after she contemplated it. "I don't know you like that." Afterwards she acted as if she was in a hurry to go and upon walking out, I asked if I could talk with her in her car (bad move; but how do you apply Kino at a restaurant where there's a table between you, unless you boldy move to her side)? She then said, "I'm good." Which is the only thing I will never persist through, ever..so I left and didn't even say goodbye.
When we were eating at the table I tried to continue the night; shopping, etc but she kept alluding she was going to her bed. I told her about her schedule and that if she's like me she won't be going to bed anytime soon. She kept acting as if she was annoyed because I wouldn't spill the beans. Do you think she wanted to get to know me more or if I spilled the beans on myself that it would have made a difference? My gut tells me no, but I did something wrong. Perhaps I lacked sexual humor because once she did asked me, "what happens when we assume?" to which I stumbled trying to be polite ( You get your ass and mine in trouble is the common answer). Perhaps wanting me to allude to her ass? I don't know. Finally got another date, 2 in 2 weeks. Thanks fellows, but I want to be better at closing; i.e the LR. Any ideas?
Playa
"Mam, we need to check your bags!" The guy siting also played along (or maybe not) and said he would like to see her receipt. She didn't believe me but he had the uniform on so then she stopped. I went to her and upon getting close said,
"I don't need to check your bags, I just wanted to check you out." She then seemed amused so I followed her to her car and didn't get her number but gave her mine.
I Kinda forgot about this one in light of my last adventure (see FR; The date). However out of the blue she text me and it went something like this:
Her: Hey how r U?
Me: Who is this?
Her: This is Lynette, the girl you met at Walmart a couple of days ago.
Me: Oh yeah the one with the reflective belts.lol! How r u?
Her: Fine. I just want to see how r u doing?
Me: Working.
Her: So what side of town do you stay on?
Perfect for chase framing hugh?
Me: Why? You trying to get with me or something?
Her; No, I was just wondering and I'm not trying to get with you, just trying to get to know you.
Her: I'm definitely not interested in sex or nothing like that if that's what you mean but if you want to get to know me, proceed.
So I remember the article. If she says she's not into sex, then it must be on her mind
So we talk and then one night at work she text back. I decided to push for a date.Me: Well let's get some coffee later. I get off at 11:30pm.
Her: No, I get off at 1AM so no time for coffee. Too late
This is where the persistence training kicked in.
Me: Perfect! I get off at 11:30 and you at 1. Good timing. Let's meet at #$#$ near #$#$#.
Her: I don't know I rather go out on Sunday in the day time.
Me: Sundays for church (she's a church girl) we can go out now if you'll like.
Her: I'll call you at 1 AM
She calls and I convince her to meet me at a certain place. At the onset I tell her my dating rule (We go dutch)! She agrees. She holds me on the phone the whole time so I deep dove. I applied humor and made a little fun of her accent and teased her bit when she said she saw "12" which is southern lingo for the police. "I can tell you got some street smarts. Anybody that know the code name 12 blah blah blah" I then teased that I'm have to be on the lookout and I hope she's not setting me up. I found out where she grew up, her family history, past relationships, etc etc (women love to talk about themselves) I got lost so I hung up and told her I'm on the way.lol! When I got there, I couldn't find her so I looked down at my phone. A text
Her: I'm sorry, it's real late and I don't need to be around late like this. I left (A real Dear John text).
So I called her again to which she tells me she is at her house. I then persist and run a guilt trip on her.
"you got me all the way out here and then leave after waiting a few minutes."
That persistence things is real powerful. It is the weapon against flaking.
She then turned around and we met and entered the dining room. I teased her when I went to the bathroom and said, "Don't leave now, I'm coming back.lol!"
Upon eating she asked me alot of questions, like am I married, to which I answered:
"Would that make a difference if I was. Some women like that you know."
I then said I was joking after she pulled it out of me and had to tell her that I don't have time for a committed relationship. She still felt unsure and after I told her I had eggs earlier this morning she said,
"Who cooked them?"
I jokingly replied, "My wife and girlfriend, they cooked them. They're into that sort of thing."
She looked shock and once again I had to re-affirm her I was joking. She then asked my age, to which I asked her to guess. She had no clue and put me near her age, to which I said,
"There you go, we'll make a great couple. Age is only a number anyway."
I deflected her answers very well and tried to turn the conversation to her but she caught on once and said, "don't change the subject." She then started acting annoyed and then complained that I was being too indirect. When I asked her about her food, she then began to become indirect with me, " Why don't you let the waiter get you some?" The conversation then started to go downhill and then I decided to try to extend the night with the yes ladder.
She answered yes; she's attracted to me, I'm attractive
but too indirect. I asked her if we could catch a movie later on at her place and .....the stupid statement popped up again (see FR; The date) after she contemplated it. "I don't know you like that." Afterwards she acted as if she was in a hurry to go and upon walking out, I asked if I could talk with her in her car (bad move; but how do you apply Kino at a restaurant where there's a table between you, unless you boldy move to her side)? She then said, "I'm good." Which is the only thing I will never persist through, ever..so I left and didn't even say goodbye. When we were eating at the table I tried to continue the night; shopping, etc but she kept alluding she was going to her bed. I told her about her schedule and that if she's like me she won't be going to bed anytime soon. She kept acting as if she was annoyed because I wouldn't spill the beans. Do you think she wanted to get to know me more or if I spilled the beans on myself that it would have made a difference? My gut tells me no, but I did something wrong. Perhaps I lacked sexual humor because once she did asked me, "what happens when we assume?" to which I stumbled trying to be polite ( You get your ass and mine in trouble is the common answer). Perhaps wanting me to allude to her ass? I don't know. Finally got another date, 2 in 2 weeks. Thanks fellows, but I want to be better at closing; i.e the LR. Any ideas?
Playa
