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Hey Guys,
Just_Dave here, I recently invited a sorority girl over who was giving me all the right signs when I met her at a party two weeks prior to her showing up this week. She was being really flirty and letting me touch all over her and such. The only problem I couldn't escalate with her at the party I was at the time, too many of her friends had eyes on her and what not. So I grabbed the number and texted her next day to meet up. She flaked, so I moved on.
Now this week she texted me out of the blue, "Hey stranger! What have you been up to?" I texted her to come over to my place. Now when she came over we went straight to my room, I built up rapport made her comfortable. When in to make a move just some resistance, turns out she was into another guy. I kept trying to pursuit and she kept trying to resist. I than told her I would need to leave soon, we spent the rest of the time cuddled up. I showed her pictures of us that we had taken together at the party, she had forgotten about them.
Afterwards she would snapchat me photos of her and I would reply and go about my day. So today I got a snapchat of her in a dorm room, so I texted her if she wanted to meet up. Another girl responded first so I met up with her instead. Now when I get home with the other girl, my phone is blown up with messages from the first girl about how I made her feel uncomfortable the one day by trying to make a move. *Edit* I made my intentions very clear from the jump that I wanted to get physical and not pursue a platonic friendship! *Edit* In summary she was disturbed I still had pictures of her and me from the party and that was a little creepy, and she felt uncomfortable I had no respect for her liking someone else. She did say we could still hang out, but in a group. (No thanks to the friendzone lol)
I just responded, "My bad for making you feel uncomfortable and I understand where you're coming from." She kept trying to start drama, but I ultimately told her I had to go, but thanks for letting me know about your hurt feelings. I told her to enjoy the rest of the weekend. She told me too and delete those photos.
My point:
Sometimes when seductions go awry girls will be upset about something, but you need to be strong and find out the issue. Avoid words such as sorry. Don't get into texting battles, I sent three messages to her seven novels. Avoid the drama and move on!
Other comments:
Don't burn bridges, I told the girl to enjoy the rest of the weekend and I didn't mean to make her feel uncomfortable. Still show you a decent person, but don't take abuse. I didn't apologize for pictures that she didn't remember us taking, cause she was still sober at the time. She got drunker much later. Either way, if anyone else has comments I am open to hear them. Also, have you ever experienced a seduction gone this awry lol?!
Peace out,
Dave
Just_Dave here, I recently invited a sorority girl over who was giving me all the right signs when I met her at a party two weeks prior to her showing up this week. She was being really flirty and letting me touch all over her and such. The only problem I couldn't escalate with her at the party I was at the time, too many of her friends had eyes on her and what not. So I grabbed the number and texted her next day to meet up. She flaked, so I moved on.
Now this week she texted me out of the blue, "Hey stranger! What have you been up to?" I texted her to come over to my place. Now when she came over we went straight to my room, I built up rapport made her comfortable. When in to make a move just some resistance, turns out she was into another guy. I kept trying to pursuit and she kept trying to resist. I than told her I would need to leave soon, we spent the rest of the time cuddled up. I showed her pictures of us that we had taken together at the party, she had forgotten about them.
Afterwards she would snapchat me photos of her and I would reply and go about my day. So today I got a snapchat of her in a dorm room, so I texted her if she wanted to meet up. Another girl responded first so I met up with her instead. Now when I get home with the other girl, my phone is blown up with messages from the first girl about how I made her feel uncomfortable the one day by trying to make a move. *Edit* I made my intentions very clear from the jump that I wanted to get physical and not pursue a platonic friendship! *Edit* In summary she was disturbed I still had pictures of her and me from the party and that was a little creepy, and she felt uncomfortable I had no respect for her liking someone else. She did say we could still hang out, but in a group. (No thanks to the friendzone lol)
I just responded, "My bad for making you feel uncomfortable and I understand where you're coming from." She kept trying to start drama, but I ultimately told her I had to go, but thanks for letting me know about your hurt feelings. I told her to enjoy the rest of the weekend. She told me too and delete those photos.
My point:
Sometimes when seductions go awry girls will be upset about something, but you need to be strong and find out the issue. Avoid words such as sorry. Don't get into texting battles, I sent three messages to her seven novels. Avoid the drama and move on!
Other comments:
Don't burn bridges, I told the girl to enjoy the rest of the weekend and I didn't mean to make her feel uncomfortable. Still show you a decent person, but don't take abuse. I didn't apologize for pictures that she didn't remember us taking, cause she was still sober at the time. She got drunker much later. Either way, if anyone else has comments I am open to hear them. Also, have you ever experienced a seduction gone this awry lol?!
Peace out,
Dave