Clueing The Girl In Before Asking Her Out -- Suggestions?

[SteveUno]

Before asking a girl to be your girlfriend, what do you guys think of texting her about the plans to go out and adding something like "blah blah and I wanna talk to you" ...in such a way it's obvious you want to tell her how you feel about being in a relationship with her.

I'm thinking that doing this can help direct you, since when you pick her up, you can see what she's wearing and how she acts. That way you can feel out if telling her is the thing to do.

Any thoughts?

 

[SteveUno]

Re: Clueing The Girl In Before Asking Her Out -- Suggestions

So I did text this girl that I want to see her and talk to her. She has hinted she wants a boyfriend and after screening, I would in fact like to start a relationship with her.

Problem is, she KNOWS we're gonna talk. She even said we can go somewhere to talk.

How do I make this girl my girlfriend now that there's an air of tension that I'm going to tell her that I'd like her to be my girlfriend?

What do I say to her when I bring it up?

 

[Chase]

Re: Clueing The Girl In Before Asking Her Out -- Suggestions

Steve-

Men chase sex, women chase relationships.

Just keep giving her incredible experiences inside and outside the bedroom, and "give in" as she gradually starts pushing for the two of you to do more and more relationship-y stuff, and SHE'LL be asking YOU to be in a relationship (or if you already are in a relationship together) before you know it.

If you chase a relationship, unless she's extremely conservative (and if she's hanging out in an online dating app, she probably isn't), you're usually going to end up being the dull boring boyfriend she breaks up with or cheats on later on down the line with the exciting sexy guy she has to chase (instead of having him chase HER).

Chase

 

[SteveUno]

Re: Clueing The Girl In Before Asking Her Out -- Suggestions

You're absolutely right. Thanks for the words of wisdom, brother!