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I wanted to share an idea which motivates me, maybe it'll be of help to others as well.
I started cold approaching recently. Before I always used tinder and I did alright. Or I would approach (and actually get results) when I was feeling really confident or in a vacation. Usually though I just had a crippling approach anxiety and wouldn't be able to approach ANY girl.
What always bugged me regarding online game though was so much was out of your hands. Sometimes I would get matches like crazy sometimes I wouldn't get any matches at all. This is really awful when you're feeling horny and just can't wait to match up with a girl and go on a date. What's more there would be no way to tell if a girl wanted to meet up. Sometimes I'd suggest a date but she would be really busy that week. And once you suggest a date and she doesn't meet up with you, your chances go real low. True, sometimes I would persist once a week for a month or two months and we'd go on a date and I'd fuck the girl but mostly no. If it's not happening asap, it's probably not happening at all.
So much is up to chance. There is little room for improvement (except for getting betting pics). And it is so slow!
With cold approach though, every girl you approach is a match. Now you might say, no it's not they might talk to me or blow me off. True. But the same thing also applies for Tinder. Just because you matched it doesn't mean you'll get her on a date. Plenty of girls waste your time. With cold approach though you don't have to wait around waiting for a match. You're horny? Just go approach. You wanna date? Just go and approach. You take life into your hands like a mothafucking KING.
I have a really busy schedule so I usually work in the evenings / at night. So I can't approach as much as I want to. That's okay though. It'll take me longer to reach mastery maybe but fuck it, it'll take as long as it takes. I don't even care I'm in a dry spell at the moment. I'm just hyped that a whole new avenue of meeting girls opened up to me. Girls are EVERYWHERE. This realization helped me with abundance mentality as well. Before I'd feel bad if I couldn't meet up with a match I liked. Now I don't even care! If I can't get dates online I'll just go approach and get dates there. At worst I'll actually improve myself.
I strongly recommend everyone give cold approach a try. I still have a lot of approach anxiety but now I can just say fuck it I'm just gonna go and get rejected and go do it (because I can't go home unless I approach 5 chicks). This actually works! Sometime I get rejected and sometimes not but the gist is approaching becomes easier. I can't imagine how easy it will be once I've done it for a few months. Then, the sky is the limit
I started cold approaching recently. Before I always used tinder and I did alright. Or I would approach (and actually get results) when I was feeling really confident or in a vacation. Usually though I just had a crippling approach anxiety and wouldn't be able to approach ANY girl.
What always bugged me regarding online game though was so much was out of your hands. Sometimes I would get matches like crazy sometimes I wouldn't get any matches at all. This is really awful when you're feeling horny and just can't wait to match up with a girl and go on a date. What's more there would be no way to tell if a girl wanted to meet up. Sometimes I'd suggest a date but she would be really busy that week. And once you suggest a date and she doesn't meet up with you, your chances go real low. True, sometimes I would persist once a week for a month or two months and we'd go on a date and I'd fuck the girl but mostly no. If it's not happening asap, it's probably not happening at all.
So much is up to chance. There is little room for improvement (except for getting betting pics). And it is so slow!
With cold approach though, every girl you approach is a match. Now you might say, no it's not they might talk to me or blow me off. True. But the same thing also applies for Tinder. Just because you matched it doesn't mean you'll get her on a date. Plenty of girls waste your time. With cold approach though you don't have to wait around waiting for a match. You're horny? Just go approach. You wanna date? Just go and approach. You take life into your hands like a mothafucking KING.
I have a really busy schedule so I usually work in the evenings / at night. So I can't approach as much as I want to. That's okay though. It'll take me longer to reach mastery maybe but fuck it, it'll take as long as it takes. I don't even care I'm in a dry spell at the moment. I'm just hyped that a whole new avenue of meeting girls opened up to me. Girls are EVERYWHERE. This realization helped me with abundance mentality as well. Before I'd feel bad if I couldn't meet up with a match I liked. Now I don't even care! If I can't get dates online I'll just go approach and get dates there. At worst I'll actually improve myself.
I strongly recommend everyone give cold approach a try. I still have a lot of approach anxiety but now I can just say fuck it I'm just gonna go and get rejected and go do it (because I can't go home unless I approach 5 chicks). This actually works! Sometime I get rejected and sometimes not but the gist is approaching becomes easier. I can't imagine how easy it will be once I've done it for a few months. Then, the sky is the limit
