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Nicko

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What's good casnovas! :)

I was suppose to cold approach some sets today but i pussied out hard(lowkey pissed off at my self). I couldn't shake off my AA that day not even with getting 1 sfack 'hey whats the time' but anyway

(Day game, walking sets) I noticed lots of girls who are with their bf(holding hands, general bring a couple) tend to show alot of attractions but im unsure if i should bother cold approaching the girl. If its very much doable how should I(i assume just open to the girl and a number close or maybe a instant date lmao if she isn't close with her bf ) also a similar case that troubles me is that when girls with dudes who are walking together and the girls establish attraction with me(touch hair, submissive body language) it puts me off when i want to cold approach even with attraction is certain because i don't know how should i handle them and the opener. I assume it goes on the line of.
1.ignore the dude, and the girl and only open to the girl i want to talk to
2. open to 1 of the girl and get to know both of the girl and ignore if their is any guys there
3. Open to the girl and talk to them as a group.

Besides walking sets, im unsure how ro open to stationary groups with girls who have dudes hover around them.

One more is how do i approach girls who are in a group more than 2 people. Girls usually travel in at least 2 or more at my venues. Girls who are alone are not rare but uncommon because of my Venue.

I have approach AA especially on walking sets, employees are fine i can open pretty easily without too much hassle(still need to bite the bullet with closes time to time)..
I plan to give it another shot tmrw after school at my usual venue(large af mall/Chadstone thr fashion capital) as redemption for being a bitch tdy.

-Nicko
 

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What's good casnovas! :)

I was suppose to cold approach some sets today but i pussied out hard(lowkey pissed off at my self). I couldn't shake off my AA that day not even with getting 1 sfack 'hey whats the time' but anyway

(Day game, walking sets) I noticed lots of girls who are with their bf(holding hands, general bring a couple) tend to show alot of attractions but im unsure if i should bother cold approaching the girl. If its very much doable how should I(i assume just open to the girl and a number close or maybe a instant date lmao if she isn't close with her bf ) also a similar case that troubles me is that when girls with dudes who are walking together and the girls establish attraction with me(touch hair, submissive body language) it puts me off when i want to cold approach even with attraction is certain because i don't know how should i handle them and the opener. I assume it goes on the line of.
1.ignore the dude, and the girl and only open to the girl i want to talk to
2. open to 1 of the girl and get to know both of the girl and ignore if their is any guys there
3. Open to the girl and talk to them as a group.

Besides walking sets, im unsure how ro open to stationary groups with girls who have dudes hover around them.

One more is how do i approach girls who are in a group more than 2 people. Girls usually travel in at least 2 or more at my venues. Girls who are alone are not rare but uncommon because of my Venue.

I have approach AA especially on walking sets, employees are fine i can open pretty easily without too much hassle(still need to bite the bullet with closes time to time)..
I plan to give it another shot tmrw after school at my usual venue(large af mall/Chadstone thr fashion capital) as redemption for being a bitch tdy.

-Nicko


You open indirect/situational and then you ask "how you guys know each other" the end... simple... never assumed cause they are with the guy is the boyfriend, read this
 

Nicko

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You open indirect/situational and then you ask "how you guys know each other" the end... simple... never assumed cause they are with the guy is the boyfriend, read this

Thanks for the advice Skills! With the opener directed to the girl 'how do you guys know each other' for your example the girl u were gaming gay zoned him and it was night game(im unsure if it still applies to walking sets during the day lol) if the girl doesn't gay zone the dude. Does it matter at all? I imagine the guy would start to compete with me when I'm hitting his girl friends and try to cock block me hard(if his desperate pulls her out of there or force them to keep walking) or that just doesn't happen? If so could you put ur insight on this matter. Thanks alot :)

-Nicko
 

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Thanks for the advice Skills! With the opener directed to the girl 'how do you guys know each other' for your example the girl u were gaming gay zoned him and it was night game(im unsure if it still applies to walking sets during the day lol) if the girl doesn't gay zone the dude. Does it matter at all? I imagine the guy would start to compete with me when I'm hitting his girl friends and try to cock block me hard(if his desperate pulls her out of there or force them to keep walking) or that just doesn't happen? If so could you put ur insight on this matter. Thanks alot :)

-Nicko

That was not an opener...

step 1>- open situational/indirect in this case you do not want to go direct.

step 2> interact

step 3> how you guys know each other

that was not an opener...
 

Nicko

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Don't open women walking hand in hand with their BF - why the fuck would you do that? Lmao.
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I know you have no reason to all the odds are against u But fuck it right? if she threw in Approach invitations there is ur chance lmao i want to see if its possible
 

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Go for it. Enjoy getting into physical altercations on the street. Any guy who isn't a cuck will not take kindly to someone trying it on with their GF in broad daylight. If someone had tried that with my Ex there would've been trouble.

Just because a girl gives you an IOI (you're assuming this - it's not 100% definite), doesn't mean you should try and sabotage their relationship.
 

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Don't open women walking hand in hand with their BF - why the fuck would you do that? Lmao.
Oh shit I miss the holding hands part, yeah that is retarded I did a post in which I bought up the point of women with boyfriends giving a lot of iOS or fake negatives iois
 
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Nicko

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Oh shit I miss the holding hands part, yeah that is retarded I did a post in which I bought up the point of women with boyfriends giving a lot of iOS or fake negatives iois
Go for it. Enjoy getting into physical altercations on the street. Any guy who isn't a cuck will not take kindly to someone trying it on with their GF in broad daylight. If someone had tried that with my Ex there would've been trouble.

Just because a girl gives you an IOI (you're assuming this - it's not 100% definite), doesn't mean you should try and sabotage their relationship.
Fake Negetive iois can you please explain i never heard of it or where is the post you made on it i quite find it its not on ur website 'skills methods' thanks for knocking some sense into me both of you before i actually get knocked out lmao bug thanks :)
 
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Fake Negetive iois can you please explain i never heard of it or where is the post you made on it i quite find it its not on ur website 'skills methods' thanks for knocking some sense into me both of you before i actually get knocked out lmao bug thanks :)
 
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