Collaborative frame

[Smith]

This is probably one of the most nuance points I've learned this year. Coming from the collabroative frame when you approach girls, take girls out on dates, take them home can really change the way you interact with them. It's no longer you trying to conquer approach anxiety or trying to be alpha on dates or passing shit tests or overcoming last minute resistance (The competitive frame). It's more about you trying to have a good time with them, getting to know them and have fun together. As a result, you become more charismatic and light hearted....funny how that works huh

Have fun trying this out =)